My boyfriends doing crack

What happens if my bfs doing crack and he wants me to aswell i know its a simple case of saying no but if i do im afraid to loose him
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You need to have a serious talk with him, if he won't quite, and still wants you to, I would still answer him with no, don't be pressured into it just because he wants you to do the same. If you loose him because you refuse to do drugs, I don't think he'd be worth it in the first place. If he loves you, he needs to understand.

He's gonna need someone to help him through it, but he's got to quit. My advice: don't stay romantically involved with him until he can prove some stability. Drugs are nasty and can do awful things to people.

Crack is real bad.. i would lose respect for any1 i know does that.. they aint worthy of being apart of my life. that's a poor descion for some1 to make. and as for u bf, talk to him, how u care for him etc.. it's about his health too. depending on something like that can become life threatening. if he can't stop something like that, refusing to, be like, it's either me or the crack. and after that u should know what to do...

good luck.

If he pressures you, then dump him. If he doesn't, then oh well.

DON'T DO IT!! It will do nothing but ruin your life. If that what you want? 14 and addicted to drugs? more than likely going to end up in jail? I don't think that's the life anyone wants. I can tell you from experience being with someone that does drugs is hard and not worth it. Don't put yourself through that. If you were smart you would leave him.

Teens these days.

Listen if you will even think about doing something against your beliefs just to keep a guy in your life because you are afraid of losing him then what does that even tell you. That you are too dependant on him. Get some respect for yourself.

^^ Very true.

I have experience with crackheads, it`s a VERY dangerous and addicting drug, it`s horrible...don`t even get started and you shouldn`t be hanging out with people that are trying to get you to do it too..leave him; there are plenty more guys out there for you, you`re only 14 for goodness sakes.

I'd hate to tell you but your boyfriends a loser
dump him

Her boyfriends not a loser...he has a problem. maybe talk to him about how you feel about him doing it...i kno ppl who do/did crack...n i've also done it...talk to him about him quiting...if he cared about how you feel...maybe he'll quit if not tell him if he did care to pick between you n crack...if he picks you he really does care for you...if he picks crack...he didn't. if he does quit help him thro it. its hard too...but just be there for him...hope this helped.

...you're 14, don't do drugs!

...if he says that, then he doesn't care that much for you, forget about it!

Someone very close to me was married to someone on crack,it is a very hard addiction to stop,many don`t ,He made her life miserable. its a degrading habit,people get so addicted they will do almost anything to get it.you can get addicted to crack after one time of using it.Don`t! It can lead to a lifetime of heartache.

I did what see nat said i asked him what he wanted more and he said me so he gave them up and this might sound a bit weird but when he went out i searched his room and its totally clean and he dosnt look stoned or ne thing anymore and he said he was really sorry

thx so much for your help guys

But you dumped him and a new guy likes you? Wow, you have a really dramatic life. I'm rolling my eyes right now..

Man i think you should leave him hes no good if hes doing that. i mean you can help him get off of that but if he refuses..... for the best of you just set yo love aside and let him go its the best thing to do!

What are you afraid of losing? Perhaps I am unclear...why would you NOT want to lose a crackhead boyfriend?

WHAT girl dont give in to that IF he leaves you then in want ment to be DONT DO ANYHTING YOU DONT WANT TO SO!!!!!!!!

Now i know its easy for people to tell you to say no, so im going to tell it to you straight, you have to try to get him to stop, if that doesn't work, try to get him help, if that doesn't work you have to walk away because it isn't always easy to say no to drugs

Personally I wouldn't date him if he was doing crack or any drug for that matter.
But everyone has two roads they can take in life: a good and a bad..
In this case you have three.
You can either stay with him and do drugs with him (which I dont advise)
You can Break up with him and let him keeping doing drugs to harm his body physically and mentally. (which I also dont advise)
what I would do is tell him that you love him and that if he doesn't stop then you will have to break up with him, But dont just leave him out in the dust, help him overcome his drug problem wether you guys are still together or not.. Urge him to go get help and to stop.
Personally, Thats what I would do.
Much Love.
--Chelsey

Well for me if a guy is doing crack i would nvr date him in the first place. but if he doesnt respect ur choice of saying no what kind of guy is he? n he doesnt deserve u then. i only answer for myself n myself alone n if a guy has a problem wit it he can get lost. if i were u dats what i would do but its ur choice

You don't have him whipped yet?!?!?!? If he doesn't respect your decision not to then he's worthless. Move on.