My sister and i have a rocky relationship.
every couple weeks or months we will have those amazing moments where we remember what it was like when we were younger and wanted nothing more than to play with each other. be with each other. those moments are awesome! and i cherish them....
on the other hand, we don't get along at all. we don't really talk. not because we don't like each other but we just don't.
we aren't really friends. she doesn't call me when she needs someone and i don't call her when i need someone. we are two completely different people. i always feel like she's judging me and that she doesnt' agree with the person that i am. which is funny because i don't agree with the person she's becoming.
for the most part, i can't really give you any advice. i wish i could. but i can tell you that you need to let her be her and you be you. love each other no matter what. and try to be there when you can. if something drastic happened in your life and you needed someone real bad, you can always count on your sister (family) being there.
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