[[[Wat is this???]]]

  • Monica AKA Mika
    17 years ago

    Alright so me and my boyfriend have been broken up well he calls it kindof a break for like a week..but nothing has changed..we still talk on the all night....he still comes over when he gets off of work and stuff we still hug and hold hands but we dont have sex....thats all thats different...he says that he misses me and he wantes to be wit me but right now he cant cuz of everything goin on right now and that he is gonna be busy but he said he dont call me his ex or friend but what do we call eachother cuz he siaid that we cant jus be friends cuz its deeper then that and that i have a place in his heart and im special to him but wat do i call him when im wit him and i introduce him to someone? He says he isnt goin to talk to anyother females and that he wouldnt want to see me wit any other guys but he excepted the consequences when he gave us a break and w.e but wat does this all mean....?

  • Rachel
    17 years ago

    Honestly, it sounds like he just wants to have sex. Maybe he does have feelings, but if he called it off, and then wants back, it confuses me. Maybe he wanted to try it on with another girl, but she turned him down. And now he wants to run back to you for some. It just makes no sense to break up for a week!

    That's just what I think.

  • olive oyl
    17 years ago

    If u r confused ask him what he means. me and my boyfriend have done the something similiar twice now. and each was for a very different reason. 1st time was his 2nd was mine but if u are really confused, i kno its not easy but ask him what he wants out of it and what it means to him. explainig and asking really helps clear it all up

  • Viola
    17 years ago

    Oh goodness, just reading your post kinda gives me a headache.
    But anyways, that not the point. I don't like this 'he says we're more than friends but not quite bf/gf' business. He needs to make up his mind a bit there..cause at the moment it seems to me like he's just stringing you along. He doesn't seem to know what he wants.
    I think you need to talk to him and clear things up.
    I personally don't like the whole break idea..you're not together but you can't be with anyone else either..hmm..I don't know..doesn't seem right.
    You should ask him what it is he wants right now and tell him to make up his mind sometime soon, mind you it's only been a week really, but still.

    --Viola

  • Deana
    17 years ago

    Its like the old saying ",have your cake and eat it too."
    He wants to feel that he is free,in case he does meet someone else along the way,but it sounds like he wants you in the meantime . If he says the relationship is not what it was before then I would let him feel the difference. I would not hug,kiss, have sex or be available for him . After all thats what a girlfriend does. You don`t know what you got til its gone. Be GONE! See what he wants then.