Me and my boyfriend

We are thinking that we want to get engaged by doing a celtic ceremony or a wiccan engagement. We need some ideas on how to do it. Anything would be good. Plus we are thinking about whether we should wait to have sex or not. He's a virgin but im not. I've had sex before but i feel nervous about it. It's like the first time i had sex. Is this normal?

Wait, you want to have a wiccan engagement? Why not when you get married, that be a wiccan ceromony?

And about the sex thing. That should be a natural thing, not planned. When the right moment arises, you'll know and then it'll be perfect.