Asked out!

LOL I got asked out by a guy in my chemistry class, we have fun mucking around when we do pracs. He's a nice guy, and I like him... but I'm unsure whether to go out with him or not, reasons for the doubt:
1. 'Bout a week ago I got asked out by sum1 else, who I don't feel that way for, and if I go out withsum now-i would have contradicted all the reasons I gave the other guy.
2. I'm unsure that it wouldnt work out - we kinda have seperate groups at our school: they all connect in the end just not directly.
3. My friend has a crush on him too.

Lol I know I only live once, and i should just say YES! but I think of every scenario and consequence of my actions....

Any help?

Ok first of all the other guy is in the past not the future
secondly it doesn't matter bout groups hardly anyone goes out with people in there own
3rdly its you life not you friends and i know alot of people are going to disagree with me but friends arnt always going to be there maybe this guy will

Lol, well she said that she'd be jealous, and then suggested a threesome... she found the humor in it but i think she could be hiding how she feels truly :S

Go for it! ur friend will eventually not like him and it might not work out anyway. If your friend was a true friend she wouldnt care as much as a false friend.

Thanks, I hope so :)

I just feel bad for the other guy i shut down... i think he had a false sense of hope, which i may have unknowingly encouraged a while back, when I was verrrrrry drunk-can't remember the entire night; just going on what people told me...

You seem like a very smart girl im sure you cn work it out just follow you heart not you head

Hmm... ive been thinking about it, and i dont think i will... i like the guy, but its one of those times how u dont really realise until he asks... so yea... :s

Well, you're single. I got asked out but a few different guys, guys who were definetly NOT my type. But alls I did was go on a date with them and had a good time. It's not like going on a date means you're commiting your whole life to them. Just go out and have a good time, you've got nothing to lose.

Well you told the other guy no and if you go out with the one you like now witch I would you can explain to the other guy why you didn't want to go out with him.

Thanks for the advice, :) I think I'll accept, the other guy can you know, move on finally, thanx xoxo

Well..my advice ..u should go..cuz u like him..u might have fun..go 4 it girl!

Is he going to mkae you happy?
make your day worth waking up for?
be a friend to you?
if yes to all those 3.
I WOULD GO FOR IT.

1. That someone else will understand you never liked him and that he should stop feeling like that. You shouldnt of lied to that someone else in the first place.

2. Groups at school dont make a difference. Me and my boy come from 2 different groups at school and our groups didnt connect but it dusnt really matter as long as your able to spend togehter within ur groups.

3. FRIENDSHIP NEVER RUIN THE FOR A GUY, cos its not worth it. talkto your friend before sayin yes and make sure its alright with her. If your friend means nothing to you and you wouldnt mind losing her then i would go for it straight away.

=] goodluck girly

Jess.

Hmm thanks, but i never lied to that guy, thats how i honestly felt.
I think with this person now, i'm likeing the idea of it all.... but my feelings aren't really true for him
It's actually made me realise that I have stronger feelings for sum1 else
I spose thats always been the with me, wanting wat i cant have, or once i get i dont want it anymore...
bleh i dont like me... :P thanks anyways