A little advice

  • James
    17 years ago

    Hey, I am 16 years old and I need a little help.
    There is this girl I am starting to like a lot. We connect all the time and do stuff with eachother every now and then. One problem though is that she has a boyfriend. Over the past month or two, her boyfriend has been making her unhappy with various reasons. I don't know if this is the right time when I should tell her that I like her, or if I should tell her at all. I want to really bad..but I don't know if that would make things werid and akward and even end our friendship. I have no idea what to do or how its going to turn out..thats why I need a little advice for the trip lol.

  • BrokenREALiTy
    17 years ago

    When she has a boyfriend, back off. If they're still together, then there's a reason. Unless they break up, keep your mouth shut. If he's been making her unhappy, but they're still together, it's their business. You can be there, but don't put your feelings on her when they're still together. It'll just turn into drama, and that's definitely what neither of you need.

  • brokenmirror
    17 years ago

    If te guy is making her unhappy she would have left him, seeing as they're still together she obviously likes the guy and still has strong feeling for him.

    Dont interefere or you'll end up causing a lot of trouble for the girl and for yourself, if her bf does something stupid then you may interevene

  • tears i cry
    17 years ago

    I wouldnt tell her he will figure it out and decide he wants to hurt you or worse hurt her

  • Sarah
    17 years ago

    Hey..well I think u should tell her that u like her, be4 some otha guy start hittin on her, and she will be intrested in him, my advice to u, is go 4 it..tell her that u like her, and got feelings 4 her..trust me..u won't regret it..

  • Rachel
    17 years ago

    In my opinon, I think you should tell her. Yes, she has a boyfriend, but she is unhappy. Plus, you never know, she might like you too but think you guys are just at a friend stage.

  • CassandraXVeronicaXONealaXLawson
    17 years ago

    In my opinion, I think you should give her time she may have to much on her mind at the time and if her boyfriend makes her so unhappy maybe she should leave him

  • James
    17 years ago

    Okay...lol. It's half and half here. I still really don't know what to do. I think I will just wait a little bit before I do anything..I unno.

  • xfAdInGxaWaYx
    17 years ago

    Back off and let the relationship run it's course. She's still with him which means there's still somthing tying them together and while thats there leave be. You have no business interfereing with her relationship.