Bf taking other gurl to our year 12 formal.

My formals soon
the guy i love and says that love me ..
had already asked a gurl to the formal before we started dating. that gurl is in our year and she likes him. cant stand the fact that where togther. anyway hes still taking her, and im cut up about it but act like its nothing.
:( what do i do? wat can i do? IM so confused..its stupid i know .. but i love him ... and he tells me he loves me .. n shes nufn to him..yet hes taking her..and didnt turn her down.
im over losing sleep about it ! HELP.

He said he`d take her before you were going it, so don`t worry yourself over it. She might like him, but to him..maybe she`s just a friend? If he`s with you, than obviously you mean more to him than she does. :]

Its hard not to worry. but ill try not to !! i jus wishhhh he neva askd her ! like it hurts to kno hes guna be wearin a tie to match her dress and not mine.

I'm sorry, that's BS. If that were my boyfriend I'd be having serious issues with him. Talk to him about it, tell him it really bothers you. No way in h*** would my boyfriend be taking another girl to a formal.
No way.

You're his girlfriend, not that other girl. And if it really bothers you, don't hold it in. It'll just cause problems later. Trust me.

If he really loved you, he'd take you. I think he is lying to you about his feelings. He wouldn't take another girl, even if he promised her. You two are suppose to be a couple. I don't think he is serious with you! I'd end it with him!

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Yeah I'd end it with him.

Seriously, when I read your post and I replied before I got SO mad. If I were you I'd have a serious talk with him, or leave him. I HATE jerks.

Promises aren`t made to be broken, it`s a formal that he promised another girl before they were dating he would take. It`s not like he`s taking another girl on a trip to Italy. I`ve seen this happen to my friends and it`s not that bad..besides, when she takes another guy he will get his chance to be jealous then.

Promises aren't made to be broken, you're right, but you'd think that when they broke up, all deals like that are off. I dunno.

Just talk to him, tell him it bothers you. There's not much else you can do.

It's not right though, that he takes another girl when it makes his GIRLFRIEND jealous. It's not right, and it's not fair to her.

Talk to him about it.

It may not be right, but it was the situation BEFORE they were dating..if they were dating and he said yes to the other girl instead of his girlfriend, then yes that would be a whole different situation...but he didn`t have a girlfriend when he agreed to take her.

Talk to him tell him you are uncomfortable or that you was looking forward to him taking you instead if you act like its nothing then he is going to keep using you

Hey guyz !

=] i spoke to him last night about it .. explained to him how i felt bout it and he couldnt reallky blame me for feeling that way ... told me he loved me n adored me .. and the second i said nefin he would take me to the formal and not her .. drop her all i have to do is give him the word and he will do it ... but that will involve me changing my formal plans with my girlfriends for him so i told him to take her and i feel alot better about it now. ! :) thanks for you great advice.

You need to get a hold on yo man and if he goes to the formal with someone else then you go with someone else.

Talk to him. i say that when you do tell him that its okay that he takes her and has a dance with her. but you want him spending the rest of the time with you without her by his side. work out something where both sides are happy.

Oh, oops. I assumed that this was an ex-girlfriend that he had asked.

Take another guy
ahahha *gremlin laugh*
oh, ignore me, im being vindictive.

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Screw him! It's something you should share together! He should understand that!

Let us know what happens after the Formal and how your night was now! =)

I think yeah he could take her but spend the night with you after all you deserve that for being so understanding (i know if it was me i would have raised h**l) if he doesnt want to do that then Forget him take a hot guy with you so he gets jealous! Let us know how it went

* UPDATE *
=]

AFTERRR A LONGG CHAT ! HE understood how i felt bout it !
& has decided to take me to formal..seeing this gurl was going around making up stories bout him n her ! :)

yay !
formalz on the 21st how excitng :d

JESS.

I'm so happy for you!

This other girl sounds like bad news if she was trying to spread rumours. Good on your boyfriend for doing the right thing!

I hope you have a good time!

*Gem*

Yeah! Congratz! Let us know how is goes!

Hey guyz !!
UPDATE
had my formal the other nighT !
gosh watta night it wos !
:) he came in a blue tie and not wif her !

so happiee .
amazing night one to remember

CLASS of 2007 !!

:D it all worked out well then i guess :D