Why do some girls go after the bad boys??!

My boyfriend is sweet and funny and charming and soooo dang cute! lol..but..hes a big flirt and hes 2 years younger than me..i dont care about the age difference but i do think that it somewhat affects our relationship because of the fact that he's not at the same mental level that i am in..for example i dont think that he really understands the meaning of a serious relationship..i really want to be with him but even his mom told me that she doesnt think hes capable of giving me what i want from a bf..i really dont know what to do..i know that there are probably guys out there that would give me more attention and not be flirting with other girls like he does..and i know that i dont have to settle for him..so what do i do???why do i keep wanting him when i know that hes not the one for me..at least not right nw?why do girls go after the bad boys??

Stop dragging it on to long.
you know your not goin to be with him.
hes not the guy for you.
i believe you should end it soon
so that way it hurts less .
and think bout what the nxt guy you chose is like.
if hes flirting with other gurls.
obviously u mean shitall to him.

Coz der idyots. :)

Haha that is so true all men do suck.... and he isn't for you i would say go older if you want someone at your mental level

Men suck no matter how you look at it

To answer your questions. I don't think he is being a "bad boy". I just think he is too immature and young to be in a serious relationship that you want. And if you know he isn't the right one for you than stop holding on to it. Let it go. It isn't mean't to be so end it. There are plenty other guys in the world that arn't "bad" and that would give you the attention you need and will respect you by not flirting with other girls when it's plainly obvious that you don't like that.

Well I hope that helps, and if I offended you at all, I'm sorry.

When it doesnt work, it just doesnt. He obviously doesnt understand what a relationship is.
The guy is not a bad boy, hes just immature.

And girls fall for bad boys because they dare to be wild.

I agree with ^ about your boyfriend

As for why girls go after the bad boys? We all think that we'll be the girl to tame him, we'll be the one who makes him settle down and we'll be the love of his life. Plus the excitement and the chase plays a part as well.

I go after bad boys because i believe they just need to be broken in and plus im a red-head i need some1 that thinks there just as big and bad as me

I can assure you that u love something he does either to you or of him and that is what he's doped u on

Dump him, you know he's not the one for you.

And I'd like to agree, all men do suck. Big ones. lol

What fantasy are you living in? He's no "bad boy", he's just immature & obviously not ready for a steady, serious & committed relationship (since he's "flirting" with other girls). Dump him, find someone around your own age...

Personally I don't know if he is flirting around with other girls, all I can tell you is to not confuse hospitality, courtesy, (all around kindness and respect for other people), etc. with ''flirting'', because sometimes that's all people really do; is show good mannerisms.

And by the way, most guys are immature & usually need time--And alot of it!--in order to reach the maturity level that you (the girl) are... No... WERE at. It's simply true in most cases, if you find a guy who is up to your level that's a answer to women all over the worlds prayers, so hold on to him--Tight!

I agree with ^Gem^ girls think that if they get a bad boy they can "tame" him and willbe the love of his life. i've been there and went out with a guy that i thought was sucha turn on bnecause he was always in trouble andi thought i could change him but you can't. i learned that the hard way. all boys go through that bad boy stage and once they get older they will grow out of it. and your boyfriend doesn't sound liek a bad boy he sounds like a young immature boy doing what they do best flirting and trying to get every girls attention.

Haha, I agree. I think that girls go for "bad boys" thinking they can "tame" them... OR thinking they themselves can be "trained" into that same label.

I wouldn't say that I've "tamed" my boyfriend 'cause he's not a "bad boy"; he's got morals, values & standards, knows right from wrong, etc., etc., but I do know that I've "steered" him, at least, that's what he says. He says that if he hadn't met me; if it weren't for me, he'd probably be heading down the same road the people around us were heading... A life of drugs, drinking, violence, embarrassment, guilt, regret & shame, etc., etc.

Not all girls go after the "bad boys" at least I don't anyways, but that's just me. Some girls (or men) go after the "bad boys" because they think they can change them, and there are some successful cases, but less than half of them came out without a bruise or two. And for some other reasons, they are listed below...

1. It's thrilling, makes you feel more alive to be with someone that, might put an end to your life. Physically and emotionally...
2. There's so many nice and homey guys out there, you just want something different. Like a while after pancakes and honey, you'd want cold pizza...although I personally dislike pizza.
3. It's...ermm...how do I say it, cool. I mean who doesn't like a canine that can't be tamed.
4. The prospect of danger and safety hazard...hmmm, the grunge look it in, so a tattered broken heart plus runny mascara? a few bruises here and there won't hurt.

And finally,

5. No matter what they do, no matter who they are, how they treat you, and how much it hurts, you still want to be with them, because you love them. Just because you simply do. =/

*sigh* Sadly what Masha said right above me is completely true and hits the nail right on the head =P Something to remember though...as Bob said...dealing with bad boys only has one outcome...BAD =( Their bad boys because they CAN'T be tamed and you'll only end up in pain and maybe even dead if you try to tame them =P

All guys can be reined in.
it may take time, but hell, it's possible.
i know i've done it a few times, with guys i thought were lost causes.
you find what everyone else deprived them of and you be that. for instance, my boyfriend hasn't had a soul [not even his family] stick by him through all the hard times. i have, through alot of hard times, and recently he expressed to me how much that meant to him.
thing is, not all guys are worth reining in.
they really arent.

All men suck omg. If i had a nickle for every time i heard that.... Dont we have a chance to defend ourselves? Thing i reckon that sucks most about us is prob sexist comments. Not so much me (proud smile) but i think its pretty stupid that guys do that, especially around girls. Thing i find most confusing about girls.... hmmm.... theres alot i know but i cant think of any... Maybe that some of them LIKE boys who are sexist?

Lols I don't think all guys suck just all the ones I know lols I think the reason girls go for bad boys is the sense of danger and the feeling of freedom that being with them gives you just what us crazy slow witted girls don't look at is what being with them costs us in the end =P Do yourself's a favor...just stay friends with them and don't fall for them, you'll love a longer, happier life lols Yeah I know...lols...easier said then done by a hundred times xD

Oooooo i suck the guys i know dont suck(well most of them) they lick gosh ask your parents about the birds and the bees

Well thank you all for your opinions! i really appreciate it! takecare! xoxo..

Bad boys are hot, not gonna lie. good guys are hot too. you cant just generalize it all up tho.

Uhhmm..

EMO GUYS ARE HOT!!

Yeah i agree, sometimes girls think they can change a bad boy.... but sometimes that don't work out instead at times the bad boys end up changing the girls...

Well spoken^

Lmfao tears i cry, that was a great response xD Actually made me laugh xD