The hardest break-up you ever had?

What was the hardest break-up you have ever had do you still love that person?

My hardest breakup was in January. It was over something so simple. I showed the guy a poem and he thought it was scary or weird or something like that so he broke up with me. It's a stupid reason so I think he just really wanted to end it and that was his chance.

Breakups are so hard. I loved him with all my heart and I still do. Everytime I go pass his house I get teary eyed and I just wish I could be held in his arms again.

Yup! I realized that but it still hurt.

My hardest break up was when it was me doing the breaking up.
My boyfriend Ste, in year 11 was really really into me. He used to always try to tell me he loved me but i would tell him he was being stupid.
The real reason was although i really liked him and thought he was lovely, i was still in love with my ex and was too confused to do anything. I look back and cringe now when i see how much hurt i must have caused.
Chris (the ex) came to mine two months into the relationship and asked me to come back to him. Like a fool, i jumped and said yes. We spend the night together which i regret with my whole heart, a combination of alcohol and what i thought was love for Chris overwhelmed me.
The next day he told me it was a mistake and left and i had never known hurt like it.
I could have never have told Ste and carried on like normal but it wasn't fair and i confessed all.
Bless him, he wanted to forget it all and carry on as normal but i couldn't do it and ended it.
Chris screwed me over twice and i hurt two boys in the process (My ex before Ste, Parker and Ste himself)

I'm very happy where i am now, with Marcus and i'm very good friends with Parker and Ste, (but i won't ever talk to Chris again after all he put me though, when we were going out and afterwards)

I've learned from my mistakes and i'm stronger because of it =)

I guess once i realised that it won't work, and we both said our last goodbyes, that was it, useless of me to hold on to a love that can't be

The hardest break-up I ever had was with my last boyfriend i broke up with him because i came home from my 2nd job and found him sleeping with my older sister in my bed

^^ Wow!

The hardest break up I ever had...
I dated this guy for nearly three years. We were both really happy at the begining, and then things started going bad after he moved. We still got to see each other on the weekends but things just weren't the same. He started drinking and hanging out with a lot of people he shouldn't be but I looked past that. I thought that I was in love with him, when really I was to young to know what love was. He ended up cheating on me and I found out about it so we broke up for a little while but then he called me up one day adn apologized and all that crap. Pretty much just told me what I wanted to hear so that I would get back with him. Things weren't the same though, it was argument after argument and lie after lie. He cheated on me and I tried to ignore the fact again but it was just to much. I eventually broke it off with him for good though once I realized that I had been being so stupid to fall for his act. It tore me apart for a while and I missed me a lot but I have moved on and have my life so much better now.

The hardest break up I ever had was when Rich and I broke up. He was my first love. We were together for about 7 months and a few days. In the beginning it was so amazing, he was so romantic and wonderful. Everything was wonderful. Then he started changing after the 3rd month, and he had double standards. Like he was aloud to do stuff, but I couldn't. My final straw was on Aug. 22. I had to work all day that day, and he decided to go hang out with these two girls. One girl who he wanted to hook up with before me, and one his ex-girlfriend. It made me so upset and really uncomfortable. And this wasn't the first time he was doin stuff like that. We wound up breaking up that night.
I do still love him. My heart literally hurts everytime it pounds in my chest. I would do anything to have him back again, but I do know that I deserve better. I just wish he was the one who could get better, you know?
Well anyway, I haven't talked to him once since the 22nd, and he left for college on the 30th. Ugh.

I haven't had a 'hard breakup'. And neither do I hope on enduring one.

We all hope not to have one. But everyone goes through it.

The hrdest break-up i ever had was with my last boyfriend. He was accually dating my enemy. this girl in our school i hated her she hated me and everybody used to try and warn me that he was a cheater and that i should break up with him and i just ignored them because i thought i was so in love with him but i really wasn't. and come to find out he was cheating on me and everyone else was right and i felt so stupid. i could feel my heart just drop to the bottom of my stomach.

Break ups aren't easy but it's not like the world is going to end, but if I had to choose.......my most recent one.

My hardest breakup was when I had to end it because we just never got to see each other. We lived 15 miles from each other, niether of us drived; so we only saw each other maybe once every other week. He was the perfect guy for me too, but it just became way to hard. And yeah I still have very strong feelings for him- I broke it off 7 months ago.

My first one, blegh my stomach was at my feet and my brain went numb... tough stuff... but I think it was a smart move on my part, he slept with my best-friend bout a month after (despite the fact he kept saying that he still "loved" me - yeah effing right!)

*sigh* I'd have to say that both break-ups that I've gone through were hard and painful but...my last one was the most painful =(
I really loved him with everything I was but...it turned out that there's no way he could've have done what he did to me if he actually had loved me as much as he had said he did =P
It's in the past but I think the thing that hurts the most is how blind and stupid I was and that I ignored all the warnings that people had given me =P It taught me not to trust guys though so in a way thats a good thing, means I'm less likely to get hurt like that again ^_^

We weren't even together.
we were best friends. told each other everything. you know the step right before you get together? well we'd been through a lot together already. his girlfriend had cheated on him and had the nerve to tell me thinking i wouldn't tell him which i did. they broke up. him and i became really good friends. i was there for him through it all and i fell in love with him. i thought he felt the same way for me too. but then months later they were back together and they both ganged up on me. him telling me i was trash. that he never wanted me and pretty much just used me. i felt horrible and was so heartbroken. i'm still working on getting over him. it's going to take a while. but i know i deserve better. a lot better.

Damn, all these make me imagine breaking up with my current boyfriend [again] and it makes me almost cry.

It was either when my first boyfriend broke up with me or the break up that happened yesteray..

The one guy that ever broke up with me was named Tim. I was so in love with him, we were always together, and that was the first time I have ever known what it was like to love and be loved. He wasn't like most guys though, he didn't really show his emotions in public, but I knew how he felt so he didn't have to say it. He had the most beautiful eyes ever.. they were a beautiful light blue and I fell in love with them immediately. We dated for 4 months but out of nowhere though.. he broke up with me. He told me it was because he had a condom.. (I didn't even know about it) and his parents found it and they made him break up with me and banned him from dating for 2 years. That hit me hard.

The break up that happened yesterday.. I was so in love with this guy that it scared the living hell out of me. We didn't see each other much, but if you love someone enough, distance doesn't matter and that was how it was for us. Apparently he was completely in love with me but he had no idea how much I loved him. He didn't remember much about me but I remembered everything about him. I remembered his birthday, when we got together, our 1 and 2 month anniversarys, I remembered that he hates chicken and fish.. he doesn't like mac and cheese either. He's a tough guy too and doesn't like to show his feelings infront of other people. He made me feel so amazing when we were alone but.. Lately it seemed like he was just putting up with me so I asked if he still wanted to be with me and he got mad and we started argueing... we were talking over AIM so he just logged off. He got back on later and wouldn't talk to me so I broke it off.. =/ I didn't want to though and that's why it's so painful.

Think about the first one this way
at least if you 2 had sex he would of had protection

Lol.. I guess that is true. But still.. I wasn't planning on doing anything with him, I was like in 7th grade O.o I didn't know anything about it and his parents were acting like it was all my fault.. blah.

Lol im sorry gal

The hardest break up I ever had was the one that broke my heart the most....

Maybe, just maybe, I might get the balls to tell him soon and walk away.....

The Hardest break up I ever had was one that happend in Jan. We had had an on and off again relationship for a long time and I can barely live without him. The Last time we broke up for good, he started dating another girl, then he cheated on her with me and a bunch of other drama. Then he asked his current girlfriend to marry him when he got back from basic training. Its just hard to think that he still writes and says he cares, but he's supposed to be married to another. I guess we never truly ended the relationship but I think it makes it hurt worse...

Lol humm let see me and her were force not to see each other because her parents dont like my kind haha

Hmmm...
hardest breakup...
well the first one was with a guy who i really cared about and thought it would last with....but he wound up moving to Europr. We tried to make it work, but i could NEVER see him, living in Ny and all...so it ended..

Second was just recently..i ended it with him and 2 days before birthday. Stupid, i know, but it just got too complicated. I didn't have those feelings for him and he was always trying to start an argument. It was too much to handle.

One of my breakups with my current guy.
it only lasted a week, but miscommunication, fear, and hormones made it the worst week i'd had in a while.

The oen i am going through right now. but i dont think either of us realizes but i know its happening. its like 6 months in the making. and its hard cuz i love him so freaking much and he loves me but i dont think its working. im not good for any of this.

My hardest breakup was with my first love. It was made harder when i found out he had cheated on me with my best friend and she was carrying his child.. But I think I've finally healed :)

To make a long story short. I lived in mn he lived in NM and we were together for a while, then kinda split but stayed really good friends, I ran away from home, I ran to him..... and he totally blew me off and the whole week I stayed in the dorm he was messing around with some *Slu* and when I left we never talked again.....keep in mind the first night I got there he was acting like the greatest guy ever...." i love you still" blah blah blah but after he got in my pants. THEN he blows me off..... hardest breakup ever and a year and a half later im still trying to get over it :(

My hardest break up was a 4 month rel. where we hung out did everything together and we both really enjoyed it. well after school had started up again he started ignoring me and "wanting to hang out with his friends" more then me. so i broke it off with him. turns out there was another girl involved. no one thought he was like that. but it hurts, a lot.

Wow I caan agree .. Ive been dating a guy off and on for (like 8or9)months now .. right now we arent going ou but I forsee him coming back since schools started this time he isnt him .. hes someone else. I dont reconize him as who he is. We were fine .. off and on a few times but fine throught the summer .. now like right before school started he started acting wird and we were going out and broke up and were going out again and broke up .. well he moreless asked me back out and we got into a huge fight and a lot of pointless I swear to god promises were made but they've proved to be worthless we broke back up last night I love him to peices but I loved him .. not who ever he is now. Yes we willprobally gewt back together but idk .. Im in a mood not to care unless something happens

I've had my heart broken but in retrospect it was my own fault. I get attached way to easily and invested too much of myself into the relationships which were both quite short. :(

oh well, better to live and learn than to not live at all.

Rebecca i was with her for 8 years, it has been 2years since i last kissed her tastefull lips and i am still madly in love with her even thou she has moved on and had a child i would do anything to be in her ars one last time i miss her so much

My hardest break up was my last one. I gave him so much of me and trusted him when I didn't think I could trust anyone. It was also the dumbest break up beacuse he just stopped talking to me.
That's not even the craziest thing. The craziest thing is that he still doesn't talk to me when people are around, just gives me this innocent look. But when no one is around he tries to flirt with me.
That bastard!

My hardest breakup was in april. my ex & i were having problems for the whole month and everything. he was texting this girl he used to have a crush on last summer & i got insecure. then we didn't talk for a couple of days cuz we were sortah giving each other time to cool off. then i texted him & said, what's happening with us ? can we fix this ? then he said he wanted a break & i'm like can we not calL it that ? & he said, he wanted to break up forreal. after 6 months. i thought we were gonna get back within the next few days. buh we didn't. the next day, i cried in my second period cuz my teacher knew about it. that was on a monday. we chatted friday night & i thought we were gonna get back. we keptcrying and everything. and we didn't. i still love him of course. he was my first real love. everytime i see him, i put my head down cuz i don't wanna think of the memories. we don't talk anymore at all. he's happily in love with a new girl & i'm happy for him too. i guess.

Why do you care about other poeples realtionship satus what are you 5 find a new hobby

Hardest would have to be the only one i had to do
i was told be so many people that he was useing me
so the next day i ended it and a week after that i found out that he was never useing me and he really did like me
and i felt stupid and wanted him back for the longest
but now i moved on and he wants me back
it was a bad reltionship in all

Well,i was actually the one that left him..the day before my brithday and a week before prom.but i couldn't take it anymore...i had to get away for my own sanity.he treated me great and all,but i felt like i was going to explode...he just sufficated me.
i haven't seen him in a year and a half...it hurts knowing he still loves me and i've totally moved on.

Well, people just have to move on and if u didint feel comfortable well its the best thing you could of done.. > instead of staying with him and well feeling bad in the inside<