The hardest break-up you ever had?

True true.but i do feel guilty knowing the break-up caused him to be an alcoholic & get back into drugs.i know its not my problem...but i still feel bad.

My two best friends and my boyfriend [at the time] were hanging out at her house and some chick was doin his tattoo. Well I walked in and she was on top of him doin the tat...I didnt say anything cause I dont flip out. They walked to the bathroom together and I saw them making out. Instant tears of course. Then that chick left and he gave me a hug and left. I've never felt so low in my life. Finally the next night he texted me saying "we" couldnt work out any more. Worst two nights of my life.

Manda says:
No, Jenn. I don't give a flying fuck about that kid anymore. I was bent of self-destruction for awhile, but the break-up just pushed me over the edge. I never really cared what happened to me, and I still don't. That won't change. Ever. I just don't care about him.

that one. ^ even if it got fixed.
that was a nice blow to the ego after two years. xD

I think almost every break up is hard.

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True!

The hardest break up is when you put your heart and soul into something you really wanted to have something bloom into something beautiful but someone ends up ruining it or the dream just doesn't exist anymore for one of them.

^^ yupp and that is what I just went through and still am exactly two weeks ago. We were together just about a year. It hurts so bad and for some reason I just can't let go. Nothing ever compares to that pain that you feel when that person that means everything to you tells you he doesn't want to be with you anymore. I mean nothing.

Break ups suck thats why there is Ben N Jerrys. Lmao.

I think my hardest was in yr 5 idont really know the person anymore but i remember his name

I think my hardest was in yr 5 idont really know the person anymore but i remember his name

There isnt enough room on this page to go into depth, but let's sum it up by saying it nearly killed me.

Wow lots of answers on this one long story short my ex cheated on me with my worst enemy i knew it was happening but everyone tld me i was crazy and then when it all came out they told me i should've know. and yes i do still love him and always will but i have moved on.

Well let's just say my last boyfriend was the biggest mistake of my life. I met him in a chatroom and he was obsessed with me from the get-go. We talked on-line for a month and then he drove for 36 hours to be with me with pretty much nothing. he spent most of him money on a promise ring for me the first week he was here and nothing I said could convince him not to. He was here for two months and he suffocated me. I was never attracted to him and he was the most annoying thing ever. I tried to break up with him four times but he would cry hysterically and threaten to kill himself and swear he could change and me being the pushover that I am- would buckle. I finally got sick of him and broke up with him for good- not budging. He raped me two weeks later and went back to Michigan the next day leaving me with nothing and hoping that I was pregnant. Thankfully I wasn't but I never got the chance to give my virginity to Matt (the guy that I am madly in love with now) because it was stolen from me against my will. Matt gave me his and he tries to tell me how much that means but it just hurts me so much that I couldn't do the same for him. OkayI need to stop now because I'm going to cry.
so yeah that's my story

Hmm, i'd say the time I thought I really loved a guy, then I walked in on him all over an old friend of mine. I didn't say anthing, I just walked away...he came running after me but I walked all the way home, then when I finally got home he was still following me so I just slammed the door in his face. I couldn't say anything...it just hurt to much, I felt like I was dying inside.
whew, felt good to get that off my chest! thanx
JayJ

The day i ended it with my boyfriend of two years, i'd meet someone new, who i'm still with :)

i remember him crying and not letting it go he mad my life hell for a year after wards.

looking back, he was abusive and i should have walked out the first time he lost his temper.