Is there something wrong?

  • Kayla
    17 years ago

    I'm so confused.. I dunno what to do or what's going on.

    I haven't talked to my boyfriend Ray since Wednesday. He called me Thursday night, but I was very tired and fell asleep early.. so he called me while I was asleep and couldn't answer. I woke up later though around 11 pm and called him back, no answer. The next day I called him around 10 but got nothing. Saturday.. still nothing from him and I decided not to call. Yesterday I sent him a text message and called him around 10 and got nothing =/ He isn't answering his phone and hasn't called me back.. it just seems like something is very wrong and I hope everything is okay! I'm positive I didn't do anything to upset him. We just started talking again because he got back home from vacation last Monday.

    What do you guys think? =( I'm worried out of my friggin mind..

  • Broken Angel
    17 years ago

    This happened to me before so i know excactly how you feel!! It sux!!! I dont actually know why guys do that but i hate when that happens.. Maybe he's busy or something!! But dont worry to much ok.. I know what you are going through and im sure lots of other ppl knows aswell.. But everyting will be aright!!! Ok =)

  • Catastrophic Beauty
    17 years ago

    ^^ I agree with that person and I can also add something. I've been in that situation before but the guy's friend told me that he was ignoring me on purpose so that he could play around with my head. So, I don't know if your boyfriend is doing that. But he could be.

  • kori
    17 years ago

    There's no reason for him not to make a phone call. No one can be too busy to make a phone call. When you get in touch with him have a serious talk with him. It's happened to me before also. My mistake though was that when I finally did talk to him I acted as if nothing was wrong. Don't do that.

  • Kayla
    17 years ago

    I'm not going to do that! I decided I needed to have a little talk to him anyways.. about us. We don't talk or see each other as much anymore, this is an example of it, and he's acting like it's no big deal. It is to me though! I am his girlfriend and he should be able to spear some time for me.. I love him but I can't be in this relationship if we hardly ever see each other. He just got back from vacation though last week and when we talked he told me he was just busy and his dad didn't want him getting on the phone at all while they were gone.. but he missed me too death and called me as soon as he got to his room =) This is different though.. he isn't gone somewhere again from what I know.

  • kori
    17 years ago

    Maybe it would be best for you to end it with him then.

  • HOLLYWOODxBANGBANG
    17 years ago

    Hmm. Well, when you get a hold of him, have a talk with him, that`s really all that you can do. Don`t just end it with him without letting him explain what was going on. Have the talk with him in person, not on the phone, internet or text messaging...you need to be able to read his body language to decifer whether or not he is lying to you.

    I`ve been in this situation, it`s not a good one to be in; just hold tight and hope for the best. There could be many possible scenarios on why he isn`t answering his phone or talking to you, simplest of them because maybe he wants some space. He could have told you before hand of course, but guys are oblivious to those things sometimes.

    Anyways, I wish you luck...just give him some space and once he sees you`re not trying so hard to get a hold of him -- maybe he`ll reach out to you.

    Good luck Darling, hope everything turns out alright. :]