Is it normal???

  • firexdancer
    17 years ago

    Ummm, i know this might sound like a super stupid question, but is it normal to think of killing yourself? *blushes* i feel really stupid but i think of killing myself and i get deppressed sometimes, but i wondered if everyone had thoughts of suicide or just deppressed people???
    someone please answer my question

  • Wings Of Flames
    17 years ago

    I hate sarcasm when someones talking about somehting serious.

    BOO!!!!!!!

    ANYWAY, lol, I am scared for you as I am for myself. I would hate for you to turn into the monster some teengers have become.
    It IS normal to think on it but you must remember that thoughts don't have to be acted on.

    My advice is to find help ASAP just tlaking about it can do the world of good don't bottle it up for God's sake!
    Whenever I tlak to my friends about this and sya how I'm terrified that I may have bipolar disorder (a mood disorder that changes from mania (happiness) to depression uncalled for and without warning.) and all they ever say is your young your hormones are changing and are making you confused and also being a girl doesnt help either :P

    But I just fear for your safety. Keep it cool kiddo and PM me if you need any more advice, I'm always here to talk.
    ;)

  • Jenna
    17 years ago

    I used to think of suicide ALL the time, everything that went threw my head, was about suicide, i wrote about it talked about it, 2 years later, i tried committing suicide (March 31st 2007). i thought and talked about it so much, and plus doing the things i did, drugs and being put on a pill i shouldn't have, made my feelings become actions, after an hour i realized i didn't wanna die, i loved my friends, my family...i took all the energy left i had && got help. im glad i survived now, im w/ the love of my life, im workin' my butt off, and i spend alot more time w/ the ppl i care about. im not saying, suicide is wrong, or its good, but your still VERY young...and dying just cause your sick of life is kinda wrong...you barely hav lived

  • Solus
    17 years ago

    What is normal? How do we decide whats normal and whats not? The way we view things can make thoughts of suicide an every day thing, or something that happens once in a lifetime. Just ask yourself if this is normal for you.

  • firexdancer
    17 years ago

    Hmmm
    these are all very good answers,
    but i don't know if some of ya'll misunderstood my question. i mean, i'm deppressed alot of the time, but also when i am not deppressed whatsoever i will see something or do something and think about how much i just would like to do something and kill myself, or i will find myself wondering about ways to end my life. it's really weird, but i didn't know if many people thought this way or not.

  • Solus
    17 years ago

    Are these just passing thoughts? Or do you view your life as something you want to end? And yes there are some who think about it alot, some with very good reasons. Others just can't seem to deal with life as a whole. This doesn't make these thoughts wrong or right, just think about why you're thinking them.

  • HisBlueEyedAngel
    17 years ago

    Well I don't think so but that is just me.

  • waiting 4 some1
    17 years ago

    If anyone thinking of killing his/her self that means he/she has no goal in this life so go search for one rather than escaping the reality and trying killing yourself.

    life is very beautiful but only for those who find the real goal for this life

  • Roxy
    17 years ago

    Bleh, I had used to think about suicide daily but now it doesn't seem as much instead I look at other peoples death...Now this is not normal lol.
    The other day I had a dream about running my teacher over with a quad bike...My brother had said It was just one of those silly dreams everyone has now and then for a while I believed him until It started to get deeper and the more I despised her the more i thought about her death...Freaky muchlii xxxxx

  • Oceansoul
    17 years ago

    "I hate sarcasm when someones talking about something serious"

    it's just a child doing what children do, seek attention,

    if you think about suicide, then just do it, and safe the world of another annoying trying to be depressed teenager .

  • firexdancer
    17 years ago

    Thank you britt, that was sorta what i wanted to hear if non deppressed ppl thought of that.
    and whoever the person is up there who said i should just kill myself. well i just want to ask you why should i? i do think of it very often, and i do get deppressed. but i'm not really suicidal.......even if i think about killing myself. grrr. i confuse even myself.

  • Sherry Lynn
    17 years ago

    I think everyone in life has though about it at one point. Maybe not directly, but at least indirectly...

    Like Britt said it is the what if's... I was just talking to a friend last night about it.

    I have often wondered what if I just crashed my car, what if I accidently made a bad combination of my pain pills, what if......

    The difference is how we act upon our what if's. Would I ever choose to kill myself, No, of course not.

    I hope that this helps a little hun. Trust me when I say that it is normal to wonder... anyone who says otherwise must still be breastfeeding and wearing diapers.

    --Sher

  • Viola
    17 years ago

    Yes, it is normal. I think everyone thinks about suicide at some point in their life..the thing is not many people carry through with those thoughts.

  • firexdancer
    17 years ago

    Thank you so much you guys, this is exactly what i was hoping to get:answers, and they really help me tooo!!!

  • GoodMEMORIES
    17 years ago

    Oceansoul --- i understand that you may be frustraited,, but that is absolutly unexceptable..

  • selene
    17 years ago

    I think everyone has suicidal thoughts, even if most people know they would never WANT to follow through. fantasizing is not exactly considering..

  • Xx soulful poet xX
    17 years ago

    Many people think about it but no its not ok if it gets out of hand or you acually think of fallowing through with it you need to tell someone!!!!!!!!!!

  • Elizabeth
    17 years ago

    It is normal to think of killing one's self; committing suicide. Not the brightest idea but a normal one that alot of people do experience.

    I had fantasized of suicide before, back in my early years; when I was "stupid" (because I WAS thinking of it; considering it), but I hadn't tried to commit it. And it wasn't that I was scared, but I figured it was rather stupid. But of course when I was thinking of committing such an act it was no thanks to the help of the pills I had been prescribed for acne; Acutane (anyone who has taken this knows what I mean), one of the side effects being thoughts of suicide...

  • willowoman
    17 years ago

    If you ask me its totle normal to think about killing your self just don't act on them thats what when you need to start to worry I think about it all the time just becouse I wonder what would happen or if it would change anything its nothing but cereosity(sp)

  • Blood Angel
    17 years ago

    I wouldn't say it's not normal.
    I think there will always be some moment in someones life when they ask themselves.. "What if I died..." it's not that un-common. Trust me you are not alone.
    I myself have never tried to commit suicide, but I've found myself thinking about it before.. just wondering.

  • linderrrxo
    17 years ago

    Umm have you ever heard of CRAZY.!! thats what you sound like.. go to a doctor hurry times running out..! and please dont run with sizzors on your way there.! i believe in you, you are beautiful and there no reason what so ever to think about killing yourself

  • Pesamenteiro
    17 years ago

    Im in the same position as U.
    My mom wont let me get a therapist because I had one once and It made things worse and I don't like talking about that stuff when my moms around.

  • Alex Marlatt
    17 years ago

    Death is just another stage in life. You decay and things feed on you. Does that help? :)

  • Lucifer
    17 years ago

    I don't know if I would call it normal but I've thought about killing myself. Several times I've even tried. I wouldn't try it just because of how people treat you after. My mom says it is normal as long as you don't try to carry it out.