I dont get it at all

So like my boyfriend broke up with me the other day and i really dont get why. he said that he loved me but he wasnt IN love with me any more. but its weird cuz the day before that he said that he loves me more than anything and that he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me and he doesnt ever wanna lose me. i love him more than anything and its really hard for me. and he still talks to me and we still play around but it feels weird now. that something there is missing.

i hate feeling like this!

By "playing around." I hope you mean watching movies together.

This is usual for teenagers to have to face heartbreak but it won't kill you and will make you a lot stronger. Each failed relationship is something to build off of in the next one. Call it experiance.

I didnt mean playing around like that! lol i mean we play fight and wrestle. and call each other names. not mean ones tho just "loser", "dork" and stuff like that. he still talks to me alot but its weird when im around him knowing he doesnt feel the same anymore. but eariler...not to long ago, i think this morning. was like."Babe, im sorry for everything i put you through and for hurting you....i love you." and im just like...."Why does he have to do this to me!" im really confused =[

Trust me, guys are weird, this is something we all have to get used to. i know it sucks, and im sorry you have to go through it.

Yesterday he came over and it felt really weird. and something was bothering him but he wouldnt tell me. then he left and i sorta ran off and he saw. and he texted me and it said "im sorry for everything, i didnt mean to hurt you. i made a mistake and i know it. i still love you"

Maybe he wants to get back with you?

I know if I was in that situation I wouldn't take him back. Because he did say he wasn't in love with me, and that's kind of cold because it's one of the most used break-up lines. Whateva. I wouldn't talk to him anymore.

This happend to me!!
an guess what me an my boyfriend got back together give it time!!

BECAUSE what happend is my bf relised he couldnt live with out me!!
i have hope for you :)
xxx

Well now hes all like " im gonna be single forever, im never gonna get married or have kids. and blah blah blah...." im im sitting there thinking. "you had someone that loved you and wanted to spend every second with you and you just let me go!" HELLO! WAKE UP!"

guys are annoying! UGH!

I cant get over him!!! aahhhh!

Help!

He sounds confused and immature and not ready for a serious, committed relationship.
is that what you want?

No? i dunno

I would assume you wouldn't want that...
but hey, whatever rocks your world...

I dont know any more

You're 15, get over it! Life goes on! So what he broke up with you, maybe he wants time to see what other girls are like. Plus, so what, you've only been dating for what, weeks, maybe a month or two? It doesn't sound like something special to be crying over!

Weve been together for 3 years. so he was something special. and i dont cry over him!

KTHANKSSSS

Again, your 15. That means you started 'dating' at 12. That is not a relationship. That is just...kid stuff!

I just turned 16 and i was 13

So like IM finally over him....well sorta, i still feel weird when hes around. but i got a new boyfriend and weve been together since 9/7/07 so far and he actually treats me like im a person. i dont want to be treated like a princess like everyone else wants but all i want is to be treated like a person. and he does that! his name is ryan! and i hope this one will last a while. IM SO PROUD OF MY SELF FOR GETTING OVER NICK!! i realized that hes a jerk! haha

*claps* yay good for you ~ just remember have fun while you're young ;) and be safe lol

Yea i plan on having fun! im not gonna get that much attached to ANYONE cuz it always gets me NO WHERE! lol

&& im always safe! =]

Author: Rachel
status: member
date: 2007.09.12 13:56

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Again, your 15. That means you started 'dating' at 12. That is not a relationship. That is just...kid stuff!

that's kind of.. actually, really ignorant. i started dating my fiance at thirteen. we're still together and planning to get married.
my grandparents have been together since age 11. was that kids stuff? yeah, the relationship is a little messed up and the boy is a little childish.. but you CAN love after three years of being with someone.
most just choose not to commit so soon these days.

Either way. It happens.
A lot of it depends on your level of maturity.
But it still can happen.

Haha.
I believe it's more than two in a million.
I know many, many couples that have dated since a young age.
And, many many couples that are married and have been together since they were young.

I can see she's over this, but still.
It's not about age, I don't see why people don't understand that.
EVERYBODY HAS THE ABILITY TO LOVE.

Just becase you didn't fall in love at the age of 12 or 13 or 14, wtfe, doesn't mean that someone else can't.

Plus, even if it were 'two in a million' that's still two couples that have proven you wrong.

I believe all we need is one to prove that you can fall in love at 12? Correct?

I was "in love" or what ever i still have feelings for him and everything. but im slowly moving on

i dont think i will ever get married. im afraid too cuz every relationship i have been in all sucked! so i dont think i wiil ever get married....like i said...im afraid to.

Thats why im just gonna kick back and enjoy life and being a kid while i still can

And right now...its going great!

Ok so like i lied....im not over him AT ALL! UGH!

I'm sorry, I'm confused.... you've been with this new guy since 9/7/07, but you started this threadon 9/4/07? So you had... three days, and now a month later you're over him? I guess I'm just confused. Hopefully I'm reading it wrong, or something.

If it's true, though, I might actually be jealous. I seem to take years to get over people...

Well i told ryan that i wasnt over nick yet and he seemed fine with it

Gtfo. d-e-d-i-c-a-t-i-o-n is key.
It's that simple. Your relationship may as well already be failing if you're interested in someone else and want to be with them as well.

I decited to forget about Nick and give Ryan a chance. cuz im happy with him