A heart in need of help

Okay so here's the thing. The person I love told me that he loved someone else, and so i sent him this letter explaining everything about my feelings. I put my soul into writing it. He's usually online everyday, and now he's disappeared. I feel like his absence is totally my fault, and I don't know how I can bring him back. I'm not sure if I hurt him or if he's mad at me. I don't have an E-mail, and I really need to say sorry to him. Everone misses him, and it seems like everythings a mess at the moment. I need help but it's just... I don't know if anyone can....

You shouldn't feel the need to say your sorry for expressing your feelings towards him, that's just crazy, you'd totally be contradicting yourself. His absence is not your fault, he's obviously isn't ready for a steady, mature, committed and serious relationship let alone a girl who's as such. Let him go, move on & find someone knew. If he wakes up one morning & realizes he still cares for you that's the day you'll be waking up next to the guy who already knew; the guy who didn't have to second guess himself.

I think that because if him "disappearing" it's because he doesn't feel the same was as you do. He simply doesn't want to lead you on, so he doesn't talk to you.

I would do the same thing if I was in his situation.

Just try to let go and move on.

Ahaha. that always makes things akward. hell, my ex kept popping up recently telling me constantly how much he loves me and was sorry about how we ended, a year and a half ago. it made me feel crappy, telling him a million times, hey pal sorry but you're too late, i'm with the one whom I love.
thank god he finally stopped.