Is there more?

As a lot of you read last week i had a problem involving a friend and my g/f. well i had a talk with my g/f basically telling her i love her and i would drop this friend if it meant that much to her. She said no, it's fine, she's your friend. so i left it alone. It was all good for like 2 days.

Then I get an IM from one of my friends. He asks me if there's something going on between my friend and I. i thought he was kidding. He said no. I asked if it was just one or both of us and he said both. Now she texts my bestfriend saying stuff that looks awkward too. But she texts me just to say good night. (and i know it's bad he said both, but i addressed that with myself and have stopped anything that could be mis-interpreted to be flirty.)

Now one of her closest friends and one of my closest both have asked. Does this mean there's something there that I'm not noticing? Female perspective would be lovely.

If any of the girls out there were thinking of there friend that's a guy as more than just a friend would u come out right and say it or would u be flirty constantly to see what he does? She does things like lift up her shirt while we're playing beer pong and shit to distract me and smiles big while doing it. there's more too. i just don't want to write it all i've written enough. haha.

No i'm not leaving my girlfriend. i just want to know if you girls out there think there's something more and she's just not saying anything that way i know whether to address this with her or not.

PM me if you need more examples plz.

Thanks again to everyone who puts their input in and reads it all. haha

Wow I'm sorry that your having to deal with this =P I know personally what a huge mess this can turn out to be =P

K, to answer your first question, no, if I really like one of my guy friends as more than just friends I won't come straight out and tell him that I really like him and might be falling for him =P I flirt, play around, get a little touchy *like running my hand up his arm* or talk to my other friends but focus most of my attention on him so he knows I'm serious lols

I'd say that if your good friends as well as your girlfriend is asking if something is going on then I think there is something going on *at least on her side*. If I were you then I would talk to her and get this cleared up before it causes problems with your relationship =P Even if she knows that you love her and that this girl is just friends with you it could cause a lot of stress on the relationship =P

She clearly wants more then just being friends and I'd sit her down and talk to her soon ^_^

If you really care for your girlfriend and you are in love with her, I'd let go of this other friend. Just because your girlfriend is going to have major jealousy issues, whether there is something going on or isn't. She sees it as there is something going on. Trust is everything. Talk to this friend, get things straightened out fast before it causes trust issues in your relationship.

Thats how i lost my bf.. So if you dont want to lose you're gf let go of the other girl before it's too late.. I mean if you really love your gf you wouldn't be spending time with this girl, you'd be spending it with your gf right?

Well i hope everything will be cool..
~Angel~

^^exactly. and I'm 19. I don't need this HS bs. (no offense to those in HS) too answer the post before it: it's hard cause my g/f is restricted every nite. She can't go out on School nights or have any one over. (she's 20) and she can only stay out till like 11 on the weekends. it's all her father being strict and controlling her. so what am i supposed to do? sit on my butt every day of the week and not hang out with friends? I devote my weekends to her. unfortunately this girl hangs out with all my other friends too.