What hurts even more....

Okay I've been thinking about this for a while... And i want to know what you guys think...

What hurts more... Leaving the person you love behind or being the one left behind by the person that you love?

Probably left

Wow...both really hurt but...I think being the one that gets left is the most painful because when your the one that leaves your normally perpared for it or at least expect it =P

I know that in my life the time I got left hurt a whole hell of a lot more then the time I left the guy *although that was painful too =P*

Being left..

I think its them leaving.... kinda goes with a quote I wrote.

"Love isnt letting them go and knowing if they come back its true love. True Love is letting them go knowing they wont come back but loving them all the same."

They both hurt but at some point ya got to let go.

Being left definetly hurts more.

Being left..i think because it's unexpected and something you can't prevent or do anything about. i hate the feeling.

Being Left ..

But It Depends on Every Situations ..

Being left. If you are leaving someone then you know whats going to happen. You have already made your decision. When someone leaves you, it's more than likely to take you off gaurd, and leave you hurt worse.

That depends on who is being left. Both hurt. I mean two people can't stay together forever if it wasn't suppose to happen... I guess. But both hurt. I'd say leaving the one you love b/c then you might have regrets for the rest of time and they will hurt and you will feel bad still.... Arg it's all a big huge mess.

Being left, cuz then you know they don't care about u and facts/truth hurts. course lies hurt more... hmm..

Leaving, because even though it doesn't hurt you as much, it hurts to watch the one you love be hurt. and that hurts even more because you are the one causing the pain.

BEING LEFT BEHIND. PERIOD.

Both bring pain. To both people. It always hurts to leave someone or to be left yourself. Whether it hurts for a long time or a little bit, you still feel pain.

Ummm mann both suck big time but i would have to say being left!!!!

It depends very much on the situation. if one is leaving someone they love who treats them horribly, perhaps it would be harder for the leaver. if one is leaving someone for someone else, or any other lame reason, it would be harder for the leavee.