Caught Between TWO amazing guys

  • A thousand broken hearts carried by a thousand broken wings
    17 years ago

    Okay there is this problem about 5 months ago I was forced to break up with the love of my life we are still GREAT friends and all but I still love him and I know his feelings hasnt changed either but the twist with him is about a month ago he found out tht his current girlfriend is pregnant with his child but there were rumors going around tht she cheated on him and got with this other guy and tht she just says it was kenny so he will stay with her and he is still with her I dnt knw wht to do with him I mean I am seriously still in love with this guy....and tht now he drinks and everything he is on drugs but is trying to quit he is on probation for running away while he was on probation......the reason why me and him cant be together is because his mom hates me with a pasion and my dad dislikes him...his mom spread around my town tht Im 3 months pregnant with his kid and if I am I MUST be doing a great job hiding it because my stomache is as flat as can be ( I workout and dance and stuff) nd his mom harrasses me and everything I SERIOUSLY do NOT knw wht to do SOMEONE PLEASE give me adivce on him

    About the other guy his name is Cody and he is really amazing guy tht Im dating and everything I 've only been with him for awhile not long though...he is two years younger than me ( Kenny is bout 7 months younger than me I'll be 17 in December) but the age dosnet really bother me Cody is very mature for his age and treats me right he doesnt drink or do drugs but he smokes and everything.

    But someone please give me advice and quick I would very much apppreciate it

    sara

  • kori
    17 years ago

    Forget the first guy, he has a girlfriend who is pregnant. Get over it, stay friends.

    As with the other guy, it won't work out. You two are on very different maturity levels. A 17 year old female is much much more mature than a 15 year old boy. And if you were in "love" with him, you wouldn't be caught between him and someone else.

    I wouldn't go with either of them, but that's just me.

  • Jaime
    17 years ago

    I think it would be a stretch to call the first guy "amazing". And the second one may be great, but eventually the maturity level is going to get you. It doesn't seem right really.

    Pick neither. They're not worth your trouble.

  • Jessica
    17 years ago

    Choose the guy you love.

  • tears i cry
    17 years ago

    Get over both of them move on be happy
    ok age difference ussually a thing but u say he is mture the only reason a 15 year old guy considers going out with a 17 year old is if he wants sex
    plus you said he smokes what mature 15 year old smokes

  • Brittney
    17 years ago

    Mike pretty much said it all. If you love this guy then there would be NO ONE else in the picture. You either love him or you don't. If so your not going to be liking other guys like that.

  • Kelsie
    17 years ago

    I think that you need to follow your heart (( wow how cliche i know )) but like seriously. take some time to think it out who you really wnt to be with at the end of the day. who has always been there for you and who will always treat you the way you deserve. i think if your parents are going to come between the relationship with the first guy, but you truly love each other it shouldnt matter what they think, its not their lives, its yours. so as for the whole drugs thing. if you really love them and you said hes trying to stop, i dont think it should play into your decision man.

    i hope this helps. : /

  • selene
    17 years ago

    I didn't read the post, but i catch the drift from the title...if you are forced to choose between two men/boys and the decision cannot be made immediately, choose neither.

  • EllenoreShade
    17 years ago

    Okay I'm kind of in the same boat as you are so not much of advice but i would like some as well...

    I'm caught between these two people....
    Okay there is the one I first really really liked and I think devleoped into love...and then there is the other I know I am in love with, there are no doubts.

    I know this shouldn't be so damn difficult..but it is...I am going out with the second person and I know I want to be with them the rest of my life...and so on and so forth...but what do I do about the first. I never got over those feelings...and now they keep coming around and I am afriad of it.... So what do I do?

  • Alex Marlatt
    17 years ago

    Whom do you love?
    If you say 'both' then it is not love you are feeling.