This might be long and mixed up

But plase bear with me.....
ok i fell for a 13yr old and im 17.. i do not fall in love knowing she was 13 i just did. i told her when i found out that when we where together we where going to have to be around someone 18 yrs or older. she did her freinds place... one night i whispered into her ear try to be romantic and asked i could keep her...she said yes and cudle's some more( we have never has and that was something we just kinda understood until she was of age and stuff) my parents were never found of this and tolod me i was not to SEE her again. this did not stop me from talking to her and sneaking out to see her. anywayz she asked if i was for real with the keeping thing and if i was she was....i gave her my school ring after that....then my mother made it so if i ever see her again or talk to her that her family was to get watched by child services and well something was going to happen to me but i dont care mostly i care about her and her family..... my mom went over and told her family this and then she said she loved me and it did not matter... should i keep doing this.... i love her and would literraly step in frront of a bullet for her..... si fel head over heals for her. anywayz i would like the poeple who have read my poems and helped me to get better help me out in this area too.... there is more to this that i will tell later when i have enough time this is just the main jiff...thank you

She's just a child honestly.

Okay, move on. it's not alright, or normal for a 17 year old to be in love with a child. later on you'll forget her, for now, listen to your parents. i mean for christs sake, teenagers sometimes end up going to jail for things like this, simply because they didn't listen to their parents.
leave her alone, as much as you think it's okay because you love her, it's not, find someone your own age and stop worrying about easily solved problems.

What's going to happen when you turn 18? Do you know you can go to jail, and there's absolutely nothing you can do to fight it? Even if you don't have sex, and her parents tell the police you do. You're in deep s***.

It is really only a 5 year difference though... I've dated older then you and I'm 15... Listen to your parents though, for now. Wait til she's older. And if it's meant to be then it will be. Just talk to her and tell her you should seperate for a few years. Wait til she's at least matured a little. She is just a kid. Not even in high school yet?

How long have you and her been dating?

If you two really love eachother like you say, then you can wait until shes a LOT older than 13.

To fill u in the broken parts.....i though this about the " mature' reason.....thank uu sluvios i hold you to that bargain....i dont want, how to say this i have no interst in having sex with her. when she told me she was 13 i even told her this.....mature how i envy the word but you guys most of you have xpreince more in love i guess i can its gonna hurt to let her go im just letting you know that but yeah ill do it.....i guess i cant call myself smiling anymore i wonder what i call myself hints on that would be nice...
thank uu girls and guys once again

SHES 13
its ILLEGAL
get over it !

It really is only 5 years apart... A lot of people will be against your relationship though, but if you were in love nothing could tear you two apart. Follow your heart, but use your head. It's gonna be tough if you stay with her, but if you love each other then you can get through it.

5 years to some people isn't that big of a deal, then again it is to some. Try telling your parents that if you two can't be together that you at least want to be friends. They can't pick your friends. Then get to know her parents, let them get to know you. Allow them to trust you, and to see that your not intrested in their daughter for sex. Make sure that the girl knows the risk involved in being in a relationship with you considering that it is illegal and that after you turn 18 you could go to jail for this. Be careful though, follow your heart, and make wise decisions.

What a sec.. i said i was leavin her k....i listen to you guys that was it please dont tell me im wrong for fallin in love with her.....just know i did what everyone wanted me to do k.....

Ps thank u brittany

"please dont tell me im wrong for fallin in love with her"

You didn't do anything wrong by falling in love with her..that's a feeling we can't help..it just happens. However, in your situation it is a bit wrong to be with her because she is at such a young age. So your choices are to either wait some years or give her up now. Both hurt. There's no easy solution for you, but everything happens for a reason. Be wise and listen to older people because thier experience has taught them a lot. In the end things turn out the way they are supposed to..

--Viola

13? you really need to find someone around your own age, you'll be happier and she'll have the chance to grow up at her own pace..without an almost adult stealing her young, vulnerable heart. Before you hit 20, any two people 2 or more years apart are at very different mental and physical stages.