The parent thing...

  • Marly
    17 years ago

    I need help with the boyfriend thing. Every time im at his house i dont no what to say or talk about when im around his parents incase i say the wrong thing but if i dont talk much i could come off as rude or boring.

  • kori
    17 years ago

    Be yourself, they should accept you for who you are. And if they don't, screw em.

    If you really love your boyfriend, no one should get in the way of it. I guess wear something that's appropriate to see his parents, and just be yourself around them. As for the sister, who cares? It's drama, hopefully one day she and her friends will get over it.

  • Viola
    17 years ago

    Who are you dating, your boyfriend, or his family?
    Honestly, you shouldn't worry about what they think..cause the only person that matters is your boyfriend.

  • Brittney
    17 years ago

    Be yourself. Don't come off as something your not. Be polite. That is key.
    About the dressing thing, simple enough, don't dress like a whore. Have respect for not only your self but the people you are with. Cover yourself and don't be like most of the girls in the world and show all you got to everyone.

  • Brittany Hampson
    17 years ago

    When i might my xboyfriends mother the first thing out of her mouth was about how skinny i was... so just don't take anything to bad... i was also in my goth/punk stage then where i only wore black and if it didnt' have chains it wasn't on me... so just don't worry about it... most parents wont care what you are wearing as long as your butt isn't hanging out... wear something that you think is comfy not something to impress his parents don't really worry about it... i got my xboyfriends mothers support right now only because i'm the only one of her kids gfs that came right out and called her a b...

  • willowoman
    17 years ago

    I say just be yourself an if they dont like you so what I mean its not like your dating his family I mean there have to learn to like you for who you are whather they like it or not sooner or later an if that dosen't work talk to them about it whats the worst that could happen?

  • selene
    17 years ago

    Why would you wear a miniskirt anyway? ..i really don't understand that. wear shorts, it's much more understandable and draws less sexual attention.

  • Gem
    17 years ago

    I was like that with my boyfriends parents ar first, i was so so shy with them, i was constantly afraid they would think i was stuck up and he had three sisters who i was terrified of!! lol

    But after a while they were always so nice to me whenever i was round i relaxed. I'm now there 7 days and nights a week, quite literally, lol and think of them as my own family. I even argue with them now, lol

    It will all work out, trust me. If i can do it being as shy as i am, anyone can!!
    Good luck