Is he cheating me?

  • Sweet lig
    17 years ago

    Guys..have u already feel what i feel right now? coz u know my bf doesn't send me any messages now or call me,, i call him but he doesn't answering, i text him but he doesn't replied me!s... its already two weeks and im so worried,, what can possibly happen to him rightnow? coz he is far away from me.. he has another girl? sick? or died hehe,, i dont know! im am bothered these days... ilove him so much.. but now i just let GOD what well be happen now.. coz i believe everything happens has a reason..

    well i also needed ur opinion thanks and god bless!

  • limp
    17 years ago

    You can either wait it out and hear his excuse, or move on. i'd say move on, if he was really interested in getting further in you two's relationship, he'd get in contact once and a while.
    if he has a plausible reason, then go ahead and stay with him, but for the time being you should let go of the knot and spend your time doing something more worthy. everything doesn't happen for a reason, the only reason something happens is because it happened. People don't know that all things have bad or good consequences and when they do it, it's reasonless, it's not destiny a-calling. anyway, there's also probably a trust issue here. if you're suspicious of him cheating, you two can't really be that close and he can't be that trustworthy. sort out your issues, because this doesn't really sound like it's going anywhere good.

  • Broken Angel
    17 years ago

    I know what you're going through and i know it sucks but two weeks.. Thats a bit too long dont you think.. Id move on.. Maybe he is busy or something like that but if he doesn't do anything in a week then let go coz then he's not worth it.. And then.. The key to a gr8 relationship, trust... If you dont trust him then you might aswell kiss your relationship goodbye coz without trust you would always wonder if he's with another girl.. And then you'd get mad at him if he is quiet.. But ya, if this continues then move on.... =)

  • selene
    17 years ago

    I don't need to read your post to tell you that no virtual human can tell you YES or NO about your personal offline relationships..only one way to find out if he is cheating. ask him. he may lie, but you'll be able to tell. don't blind yourself.

  • Viola
    17 years ago

    We can't give you an answer, my dear. It all depends on the situation and what he is going through right now. I'd find a way to talk to him as soon as you can. Maybe go pay him a visit so he can't avoid you..and then in a very serious way ask him what's going on. Communication is important in a relationship. You two have to be able to talk.
    Btw if you can't find a way to talk to him at all it most likely means he's trying to avoid you..in this case you move on. No use waisting time waiting around for him.
    Hope it all works out! =] Good luck.
    --Viola

  • Of Sweet Insanity
    17 years ago

    Wow that is sooo crazy... I agree with the first answer. Wait it out or Give up now. If you wait, make sure the excuse is a GREAT one. Otherwise you two had better split.. I'm sorry.

  • Solus
    17 years ago

    He might be...or he could be sick, depressed, lost his phone or could be mad at you. One must look at all posibilities before choosing one.... not just at what most people think it means.

  • Someone who listens
    17 years ago

    Hey
    so i c u cant reach him on his fone have u tried calling him with a private ID if he has a mobile call 1831 then his mobile number n ur number will come up private this will only happen if u do this on ur house fone but before u do that ring his mobile without the private ID n see if he picks up. if he picks up the private number then something is definitly sus

    Peace

  • Sweet lig
    17 years ago

    Hey thanks guys..i appreciate all ur advice.

    were ok now....

  • linderrrxo
    17 years ago

    Girl get rid of him, hes a LOSER. hes obviously is cheating on you.. hes a guy thats why guy do they cheat its like a second nature to them.. im sorry the same thing happened to me. every bf ive had has cheated on me soo i can understand.!