ANGER!

My life is so messed up right now i just dont know what to do anymore. Ive been through so much in my life its unreal, i dont want to get into the specifics though. Anyway the past year and a half have been sooooo bad, i got with my bf last february and we were great at first, then i moved in with him in august and things got a little rough. Then around november he started hitting me and threatening me. After january he stopped for awhile but insisted on keeping tabs on me where ever i went which was only school and he didnt even believe that i was actually at school, like i would wake up at 6 in the morning to go cheat on him wtf. Then i graduated and i started working and he didnt believe that i was at work even though he would show up randomly and see me there i was still lying and cheating. I gave him no reason to think that i was cheating on him either. Now i go and visit my mom but to him im out lying and cheating on him its getting ridiculous. And lately he has an attitude with me all the time, and every time i get a text or a call its my other lover and he has to listen in or read my texts to prove that im not lying i have no privacy and ive dont nothing to deserve this, i dont know what to do. Ive thought about leaving him but i have no where to go and no money i need help

Confront him, tell him if he doesnt trust that you love him then maybe you should leave, stand up for your self, if you allow him to control you then he will thinks its right, he needs to learn that if he keeps doing this that he will lose you and then hes stuffed.
ask your friends for help, or your mum that way your not alone and they can help you.

^Yeah, but only do that in a public place. for all you know he could try and kill you.

Or you could have someone else kill him.....nothing you do ever gives him the right to hit you.....men who hit women need to get the sh*t kicked outta them.

Well, it's safe to say he has trust issues. This could be because his past girlfriend or even family members lied to him. You have two choices,

#1: Keep trying to make it work. Keep telling him he can't treat you like this and that you're not cheating him. But, tell him after this that as much as you love him (or love being with him) that you can't take this sort of treatment anymore!

#2: Move out. If It gets really bad, I'd pack up my stuff and leave a note. No way I would put myself in a position to get hurt physically some more! I'd leave maybe an e-mailing address, or a cell number! I would just disappear, and give him time to think about how it's been. Then maybe meeting up, talking, then giving it another chance, or calling it quits altogether!

If he's hitting you GET OUT OF THERE!!!!!

NO ONE has the right to hit or abuse you in ANY WAY!!!

what's your relationship with your mother? could you move back in with her?
make him realise that he CANNOT get away with hurting you! if he loves you, he will appologise and want you back. If not, then it's no big loss! do NOT stay with someone like that! it's not worth it. you'll be unhappy for a very long time (if not the rest of your life)

Thank god finally got caps off! =]

But anyways,
You have every right to have your privacy. If he can't believe that your not where your saying you are then he needs a re-do on attitude. Your going to end up in a worse situation then your already in.

You need to confront him and say that either he believes you and stops hitting & verbally abusing you then your going to leave no doubt about it.

Trust me hunny, you don't want to be in that kind of situation!

Get a life.
live with.
the only way to find rest is death, socoose the right option

If he is hitting you then you NEED to get out, no matter what or how much you love him. because one day you might wake up and that day would be your last because he killed you. don't let that happen to you because everyday there are more and more women and girls diying because of their boyfriends. think about it honey...

If he hits you get away from him....he definalty has problems,,