Should i find sombody knew?

As you know i losted my husband and all. and i raise his two kids as my own blah,blah,blah and i was just wondering if it's ok to try to find somebody knew and all that. i mean i'm sure that the kids don't have a problem with it but still i wonder if my husband would want me two..please help....

Even if I told this story a million times, if I had lost my husband and was raising his two very young children, I would not be saying blah blah blah. You lost your husband less than a year ago, you need more time to grieve and so do the children who lost their father before they are ready for a new man to enter their lives.

All i know is if i lost my husband, it would take me more than a year to get over it.
unless, of course, the marriage was failing anyways.
then the circumstances change.
but hey, that's me.

Seems to me you really didn't love your husband, harsh as that sounds. It's the truth. The children should be your number one priority, you have taken responsibility for them.

When you lost your true love less then a year ago, you don't want anyone else.

Sure, go dating. Make sure you take good care of the kids though.

I have to say I agree with the others. My dear, I understand you might be feeling a bit lonely right now.. and yeah, that's normal. But understand that those kids as well as you yourself are probably not ready for another man to come into your lives as a serious figure. A casual thing I suppose is fine. Meet new people, talk to them, spend time with them. At the end of the day though it' those kids you must worry about. And frankly, yourself as well. You shouldn't be getting into any other emotional messes at this time..you've already been through plenty already. Give it time.
Take care of yourself! =]
--Viola