Cousin in love with my husband (help!)

  • CassandraXVeronicaXONealaXLawson
    17 years ago

    What would you do if your 14 yr old cousin is in love with your husband? please tell me! she is family me and my husband have tried to talk to her but when im not home she is at my house i know my man ain't cheating on me but im afraid if he keeps rejecting her she will like make stuff up and cause him to go to jail and im pregnant i just cant go swinging on her so lost

  • OMGdanielle
    17 years ago

    You need to set her straight. he's your HUSBAND. that's ridiculous.

  • kori
    17 years ago

    Have a talk with her mother and father. That's not right, and it is disgusting.

  • Viola
    17 years ago

    You are married!! What is wrong with this girl?.. I mean I know she's your cousin but please tell her to get some sense into her. I wouldn't tolerate that. Tell her to stay away, get her to go away, I don't know how but do it. I don't think your relationship needs this foolishness. She'll olny cause trouble. I'd also advise to have a talk with the husband about it. But definitely remove her from the picure. Just redicilous.

  • OMGdanielle
    17 years ago

    ^ahaha, dave. all i can do is laugh.

  • Rachel
    17 years ago

    You're cousin probably isn't in love with him, but probably jeolous of the fact that you're married and having a baby. You might want to start locking the doors, talking to your aunt and uncle, and not allowing her around for a while is she is going to cause crap!

  • Han84
    17 years ago

    Well dont allow her in your house alone with him then she CANT make stuff up can she.. .and its stupid its clearly a crush.. if your that worried about it then SPEAK to her PARENTS!!!!!!!

  • Impulse
    17 years ago

    ^ Speak to her parents

    aye aye here here!.. problem solved right there

  • silvershoes
    17 years ago

    You're not much older than your cousin. How old is your husband? Personally, I think this is all a maturity issue. Marriage at a young age, more often than not, seems to be a bad, bad idea.

  • Jaime
    17 years ago

    I would say she's just going through a phase. I bet she gets bored after a couple weeks of this. Don't do anything.

  • Boy
    17 years ago

    Trust in your husband..... and say him to tell that girl. that how much he loves his wife.

  • JR13
    17 years ago

    I think you shouldnt let her go to your house. b-cuz think about it..... she comes over right your not there and yeah she can make up stuff and send him to jail but if you dont allow her to come over again then there is nothing to worry about. so just have a talk with her mom dad ur cousin your husband and you in a room. let her know whats up and that she needs to chill out with all that cause it aint right and after that if she comes over then i say you .... idk just put her in her place shes only 14 years old.

  • Alex Marlatt
    17 years ago

    She ain't in love. She just wants his body. Hope that helps. :) Lol.

    Seriously though. She just thinks he's hot. It's pretty effed up if she'd try to send him to jail because he won't divorce/cheat on/renounce his wife (who happens to be her cousin). She's mental.

  • The Queen of Spades
    17 years ago

    "Does anyone else feel like they're screening topics for the Jerry Springer show on here sometimes?"

    ^Thats hilarious...because its SO TRUE

    this is a ridiculous situation that should be easily remedied. You've just got to set your cousin straight. Your man will not do anything and if he does...well then you've got a whole world of problems more than your cousin.

  • Becca
    17 years ago

    *Did u talk 2 her mom or somebody?

    *Maybe u should keep her out of ur house, esp when ur not there.

    Seriously... it may be a crush but since she has a crush on a grown man u never know what's goin on in a teenager's head to get his attention.