>*Confused*<

Ok... well theres this guy... there always are... but anyways.. ok well this guy is like 16 bout ta be 17 next month.. im just 14.. but well i like him alot... *&&* i told him i loved him... cause i thought i did.. well he started talkin bout marrige and how he was gunna have 2 kids with me and all this other stuff... well i kinda freaked cause i mean im just a freshman and im not ready for summin like that ... well he talked bout it for a while and then he stopped so i didnt think bout it much anymore... well then... i got scared cause i think i mite be afraid of real relationships.. im jus not ready for it... or summin... well i broke up with him *&&* i told him that i didnt love him well he like freaked out and yeah... well... now... we havent been together in like 2 months.. i havent talked to him in like forever.. well now hes all i can think about... i know someone is gunna say im too young to kno what love is.. .and there probablii rite...but... What do i do??

Your rite.... but i meen i am havin fun...but when i have fun people call me a slut and a player!!... if that makes sense...

Ah dealing with a break up. There's no concrete answer on how to deal with it. It really just depends on the person. Things you could do are hang out with friends, get involved in your school (like clubs and teams, that sort of stuff), just find things to do that you love to do. I know this is not what you want to hear, but you ARE young. You have your whole life ahead of you hun, and honestly, it's too early to get caught up in all this relationship stuff. You can get hurt emotionally, and for what? A guy. It's not worth it at this point in your life. There's so much else you could be doing.
As for the guy, I'm sure you'll get over him..give it time.
Good luck and enjoy life! =]
--Viola

Ahaha i dated a guy who talked about marriage and kids! i asked him to stop because it scared me and also i didnt believe it for a second, and he got mad at me!!! i thought i loved him, so i agreed to it, but i never believed it. that relationship was dysfunctional.