A 13 yr old in love keep dreaming

Yeah. I know I'm 14 and everything and I honestly think it's pretty, well, not true. I mean I've been out with guys but I can't honestly say that I loved them properly. To be honest I probably don't even know what love actually is! =P

Some of them do, some of them don't.

look at their maturity, not their age :(

but i do agree that a lot of ppl around my age confuse things.. like with love, or attraction with infatuation because we get caught up in it all and confuse ourselves at times.

Yeah. I know I'm 14 and everything and I honestly think it's pretty, well, not true. I mean I've been out with guys but I can't honestly say that I loved them properly. To be honest I probably don't even know what love actually is! =P

^You're perhaps the wisest 14 year old to have entered the Love Forum. I applaud you. :)

" I mean sure Romeo and Juliet were like 14 or something but times have changed life is not a story and people live past the ending"

Romeo and Juliet was also fiction.

^
^does the applauding go to me or "Just called....."
just wondering (i get confused easily..lol)

I totle agree I think love is what comes after years of lust an besides shes seems like she's to young to even no the differances between love an lust

Well im 12 in year 7 and yes some gurls say there in love but there just atteracted to them say if they were "HOT" but ii have a boyfriend and he not tthe hottest and not the skinniest guy we have been together for a long while now but ii love him and i don't care what aniione else says i LOVE him and would give the world to be with him

^ puppy love

We'll see in ten years if your your still together

^^seriously, 12 years old? you guys have just barely started puberty! you're going to change so much, its virtually impossible to go through middle and high school and be the same person, much less be WITH the same person. you guys are each other's interests now, but it won't be like that always, almost guaranteed.

I think it's possible for a 13 year old to feel and fall in love, honestly. But, for them to keep that relationship going, that's hard. They're still in their teens, being a teenager .. well. There's a lot of dating going on for a lot of people. Just because someone doesn't 'last' doesn't mean they didn't love each other.

Both of my aunts had a boyfriend at the age of 13. I've heard this story a million times, but still. The oldest, Val.. Well, she got married to the guy. But, they divorced. Val says it's because they weren't sure if they were really in love because they'd never been with anyone else.
She's fallen madly in love since and she's been married for 15 years. [[Her Teenage Lover And Her were only married for 2 years ]]

My aunt Shelly, though. She met her husband the first year she was ever in school. They began dating in 6th grade. [[About 13 years old]] With a few break ups here and there, they're still married. Today is actually their 25th anniversary. We had the party saturday. (: It was awesome.
But, anyway. They have two grown kids, and are still madly in love.

So, just as I stated before. They can feel and fall in love, but it's the part of keeping it going that gets most teenagers.

It depends on how mature someone is, but i don't think its love, its infatuation ^ agree

Yeah. I know I'm 14 and everything and I honestly think it's pretty, well, not true. I mean I've been out with guys but I can't honestly say that I loved them properly. To be honest I probably don't even know what love actually is! =P

^You're perhaps the wisest 14 year old to have entered the Love Forum. I applaud you. :)

^Lol, Why Thank You (:

SPELL! Sheesh.

And your 15?

Isn't some people still saying their in love and all that when their 15 too?

Idk im tired im hurt and i dont give a crap no more!

Well, you dont really know if that person is in real love or not cuz ur not the person u were talk about.

Well may i just say
as a thirteen year old.
i have been in love .
its not totally impossible to fall in love.
theres no age restriction.
and i cant say im the most mature of my age
but most of the time i am.
and like the guy above me said...
you gotta be sorta lucky to fall in love at a young age
and i am sorta grateful for falling in love.
it was the best thing that has ever happened to me.
i do know people who say their in love and i know they dont mean it
but im one of those people who believe in love at first sight
and all the mooshie gooshie stuff like that
and i do sorta believe that a 13 year old can fall in love.

I think it's impossible that 13 and 14 years olds can say what love is.
well, some adults can't either! "what is love?"
isn't this a question that is frequently asked?

however, these days, kids are growing up faster. and hence they tend to be more mature and think like an adult. but, being with a guy because he is hot, isn't it what we call "puppy love"?

I got together with the person I'm with now at age 14. And we're still together almost three years later.

Sometimes.. Things grow. But I didnt love her at first.

Any one can be in love no matter the age. age really has nothing to do with people's emotional capabilities. a 30 yr. old can act like a 14 yr. but he can be in love simply because he is 30?
-JUST MY OPINION THOUGH-

First of all it takes experience to know what love is, not oh I love my mommy and I love my daddy. At age 13 you've never experienced true love before because let's face it at 12 girls/boys have cooties, so you haven't given yourself much oppertunity now have you. Now in some cases you may get into a relationship at 13 and it'll last 5 years, and as you and your knowledge of love grow you'll realize you do love this person. But even then that doesn't mean because you love them at 17 you did at 13. I think the best way to learn love is to have your heart broken, although it may be the worst pain ever, it will open your eyes to what you once thought love was. GG23

I know a few people who are 30 and so on who have been with their childhood sweet hearts since a young age of 14. I believe that 13 and 14 is much too young to start falling inlove but who is anyone to tell them that they are not inlove? How can someone think they know how someone else feels? I say let them live a dream of thinking they are inlove. If it evolves into something beautiful over the next few years of their lifes good on them but if it doesn't then they will learn from there mistakes just like the rest of us have done or are doing at the moment.

I agree with the original poster.

at 13 years old you cannot fully grasp what "love" really entails, you haven't been through the tough times, haven't had to struggle to make a living,

your love is like a dixie cup, you may be "in love" but it's not enough to survive. and i'm telling you right now, love isn't all smoochy smoochy, when a guy tells a girl he loves her he's telling whoever is in charge of her that he is responsible for her.

I really don't know. My boyfriend said "i love you" three days after we got togehter...i was really excited and happy...but then i realized that he is kind of immature, and probably doesn't know what love is. And 3 days....thats way too soon to even think about that in my opinion...we've only been together 3 months now, and i don't love him yet. "love" is such a strong word....only to be said if really meant!

I think it would depend on the persons situation i mean if they seen eachother everyday and spent time together outside of school and i dont know didnt just talk on the phone and be done with it...im saying if it was a real relationship for a long enough time i think i young girl/boy could have puppy love and maybe love...but i dont really know like i said it depends on the situation and the people.