Have u ever heard "u dont love him/her ur to young to know what

  • mrsmoore
    19 years ago

    I know what you are saying! I hear that all the time... I felt like i was in love with my boyfriend for the longest time and no matter what others said i was convinced i knew what i was talking about... now though, i really dont know if it was love that i was feeling or if i was just soo happy to be around him, to have him near me, to talk to him, that i just confused that with love. I mean i know thats what you need to love someone... but love goes a lot deeper than that. I dont know now if it was love i really felt... Im only 17 and i like to think that i was and still am in love with him... but there is soo much riding on the real meaning that i just dont think i can live up to it... I think it may be possible to be in love at a young age... maybe?

  • Casey
    19 years ago

    im 15 and i thought i was in love and felt the same way you did, but now i believe that saying you're in love is just a way to cover up the fact that you're either in lust or obsessive about the person. I have seen so many girls and guys say that they were going to marry the person they "love" or even once I heard my friend say that they were moving to california after high school was out and guess what? They're all broken up and broken hearted because they really thought they were in love (even after only 3 months it was sickening)

  • SHYSTY23KO
    19 years ago

    I Knew I loved my bf and i was 14 when i started. I KNOW I loved him and I didn't and don't care what n e one thinks. How can some one speak for you and tell you how you do or don't feel just because they're older and don't know what it is?!?!?!?

  • speculative_scene
    19 years ago

    i went out with this guys when i was 14 and i loved him so much then he broke up with my and i still love him i lithink about him all the time and i cry about what i lost. ive had people tell me i was too young to understand love but do you really have to be a certain age to understand love and who says adults really know what love is anyway?

  • vanessarrr
    19 years ago

    Mike you are so awesome! wish my parents could think that way. but i understand why they don't. anyways, i really don't know what to say. yes, we're too young. no, age doesn't matter... ?

  • Joy
    19 years ago

    Honestly...I'm 14 and I KNOW I'm in love. Sorry...but no one can tell me who I can and can't love. No one but me controls me. Being in love is an awesome feeling...one that I can't describe even. Yeah sure, I probably haven't met the guy I'm gonna spend the rest of my life with, because I know I'm gonna love him. But think about it. We love our parents. Why? Probably for the same reasons we love our b/f's and g/f's. And we can love someone just as a person, not romantically or anything. So this is my view on the topic! Lol.

  • Brittany
    19 years ago

    I hear it all teh time, and i am completely in love... I know it for sure...

  • Natalie84
    19 years ago

    I fell in love when I was 15....At 15 I KNEW what love was.....and I was in love. Never understood anything more than I understood love. I am still with the same guy 5 years later and getting married. You can be 13 or 14 or however old and know you are in love. You can think that the person you are with is who you want to be with forever even though it won't always work out as with adults. It is possoble, I am living proof. I think if you think you are in love and you want to spend the rest of your life with that one person you are sooooooo lucky to have found it so early. Some people search there whole lives for it and never find it.

  • miss scooby
    19 years ago

    Well, i know alot of people think there is an age for love, but i don't think anyone should justify and age to you. You know if you are in love and no one can tell you different. With love comes a deep inner passion that is a risk...but hell everything in life is a risk. I remember growing up the first time i came home and told my mom i was in love...she just about fell off her chair...but she let me see and figure out for myself...because her and my dad started dating when she was 12 and him 15...thats quite a LOOOONG time...so it just goes to show that there are people out there who have experience love at a tender age and it grew stronger and more passionate every day!
    just my thoughts
    take care and i hope all goes well,
    scooby