So true

Think about it. As we grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn't supposed to let you down probably will. You will have your heart broken, probably more then once and it's harder every time. You'll break hearts too so remember how it felt when yours was broken. You'll fight with your best friend and lose friends you thought you would always have. You'll blame a new love for things that an old one did. You'll cry because time is passing so fast and you'll eventually lose someone you didn't think you could live without. So take too many pictures, laugh too much and love like you've never been hurt because every sixty seconds you spend angry or upset is a minute of happiness you'll never get back.

-Amanda-

I got this in an email and it really made me think.. You are right, this is true!!! =)

"it's the emotions in us that don't allow us to think rationally"

^Excatly. I think we all know those things that were mentioned. We hear them everyday and from many people. It's the fact that not many of us act upon them..or know how to..or are able to.

Agree to disagree.

It's true, that one person or the people closest to you; a lover, friend(s), relative(s), who you figured would never let you down have let you down in some way. But you can't expect that person to be perfect now can you, they don't know your (full) expectations of them...

But not EVERYONE has their heart broken, at least multiple times... This depends on what you mean by heart break. If it's because of a break-up, a friendship lost, a death in the family, and all those other major heartaches that lead to a major splash; change, in your life, or because of some of the "little" heart aches too such as being picked on at school, of social sport event you played in badly, a person you know is abusing themselves in some way, a lover who's raised their voice to yours, and so much more that 'cause minor ripples; a small adjustment, in your life, etc., etc. There are many different forms of heart break, and by distinguishing it you can then determine whether it can be done more than once--And one too many times!

Most likely, a person will 'cause heart break because they remember someone doing it to them, after, to only regret; remember, how they felt when they themselves were heartbroken.

You will fight with, and perhaps lose, your best friends who you thought you would always have. People change; you, your friends, etc., whether that change is good (you and your friend keep in touch; socially and publicly, acknowledge one another and treat each other with general and overall good mannerisms; respect, hospitality, courtesy, integrity, etc.) or bad (you and your friend don't talk socially or publicly; as in school or outside school, say, at a place of work, or even look at one another, show all around kindness and respect, anymore). But you will always make new friends, some even closer to you than those you had before. If you still feel for your (ex I can presume) friends then you will most likely keep them close to your heart and your memories, will be respectful and kind; talk and acknowledge them, even if they don't talk and acknowledge or are kind and respectful with you. This just proves who the more mature person is who triumphs overall at the end.

From experience in a bad relationship you may blame your new love for things that an old one did or compare them to that person, or use that as your foundation in the relationship. You use your past experience as a caution; warning yourself for what you presume will happen next. Some people even go as far as to use that experience to pass judgment on others relationships and partners, on all men/women and relationships in general, etc.

Then you'll cry in regret because you were holding yourself back from experiencing something new, and may now have gotten yourself into--Specifically out!--more than you bargained for.

I posted this because i thought that maybe people would understand what it saying and would listen to it. you know?

Yeah I know, I listened, and although I already knew, it's nice for the reminder... peace out xo

Geez, the things people will gripe about nowadays...

People do listen and do understand, if only you'd understand. This post was very open; the statements weren't fully described but rather left open to the imagination. No one here is wrong.