I Dont Know What To Do Anymore

  • A thousand broken hearts carried by a thousand broken wings
    17 years ago

    Omg I really dnt knw wht to do...this morning a 5 a.m. I lost my mother...no one knws or even unerstands the pain Im going through how am I suppose to live life without her?

  • GoodMEMORIES
    17 years ago

    I am so terribly sorry for your loss. I can't say that i understand, because honestly, i dont. i dont know exactly how you are feeling, nor will anyone. i dont know your situation, bbut i am guessing that other people that knew her are missing her allot to and are going through tremendous pain also. i think you have to learn to accpet the fact that that happened. its not fair, i kno. but to be honest life is not fair. things happen all thte time that should not. talk to people that you know and trust becuse i beleive that they can help you more then any of us can. angain i am terribly sorry. i think that you can get through this. even though i dont know you, but just by you wrting what you wrote, you are searching for help. and that is the first step. relizing.. i hope that you dont keep everythign to yourself. contiune to write and continue to talk to people. if you ever need to talk. you can email me. my email is in my profiel

    i wish you luck

  • swill
    17 years ago

    Sara Deary...
    Death is a part of life...I know its really painful losing a loved one...but your mother wouldn't want you to be sad, would she? She wants you to be happy and live strongly...
    I promise that things will get better...and you will fee better. Although it doesn't seem like that at all...I promise it'll happen...just believe in yourself, believe in time's healing power, and believe and KNOW that things will change...
    As time passes, the pain will diminish until you can carry on with your life normally...I promise it will happen...

    Your mother surely wanted you to live a beautiful life...you were even probably her dream...so why not go out and fulfil it? I'm sure your mother would be at peace if you went trhough the least amount of pain, and were very happy in lfe....so don't worry dear...things will work out...I know they always do, I promise.

  • Gem
    17 years ago

    Dhavel has said everything that i think could be said
    I'm so so sorry for your loss. I know how you're feeling right now. Seven months ago i was feeling like this after my nan passed away, who was a mother to me.
    Right now it feels like nothing could make you happy again, like there's no point in anything anymore.
    But i can promise you things will get brighter one day. Maybe not soon, but they will.
    Surround yourself with the things that used to make you happy, but don't be afraid to cry. Having a good cry will help get the grief out of your system and yet don't be afraid to laugh or crack a smile at the good times that you spent together either. I'm sure she's watching over you and smiling at you.
    I don't know what's caused her death but if it was a long process, take comfort in the fact she's at peace now and if it was sudden, remember that everyone has their time to go. All part of God's plan and everything.
    If you ever need to talk, feel free to message me, i can't guarantee i can help but i can always try.
    Feel better soon m'dear
    *Gem*

  • bRiNgMeToLiFe
    17 years ago

    I'm so sorry :(
    I agree with Gem Don't be afraid to cry. Actually usually you feel at least a little better after it.
    And dont be afraid to laugh either.
    I'm so sorry once again and I know that this didnt really help much but if you ever want to talk you can pm me.
    Try to feel better :)

  • anime1addict
    17 years ago

    I'm so very sorry for your loss. i wish i cuold understand even a bit how you feel but i can't. don't be afraid to cry. write down how you feel. or write to your mother. it may sound stupid, but beleive it or not, write to her, and she'll be able to hear your words. :) hope that helped

    with much love and support,
    Ange

  • midnitestars89
    17 years ago

    Sometimes it hard to get back up and face life, but you have to do it. If you don't then you'll never be strong enough to face all the challenges in life. Losing a loved one is tough, I mean I know how I felt but you could be taking it a lot different than me. All I can say is HAVE FAITH in your self and believe.