LOVE ????

How do you know if you're in love or not? i met this guy and ever since then he is all i can think about and when i hear someone talk about him i just want to tell them to shut up because it hurts too bad to talk about him knowing hes not mine and he never will be. Am i in love or not? i just feel like i'm falling hard and i am never gonna reach the ground.......

please help!!!

- Amber

Whatever it is, it sounds slightly nauseating.

Haha ^^

Your in love or in deep lust and you may have a little bit of regret, (same situation here)

I find it funny how some people ask strangers over the internet whether their feelings are true and real and deep enough to be called love.
Let me give you the simple answer, WE DON'T KNOW.
How do you expect us to?.. Ask your heart this, it will give you a better answer.

If you were in love you could tell. first off if you love someone you wouldn't be falling you would be floating. Second off if you truly love someone as long as they have a smile on their face you would to. Third off hearing their name would give you butterflies not make u sick. Unless you know they don't want you no matter how bad you want them but at the same time it wouldn't be a bad thing. But you will know they will be on your mind 24/7 and you would do anything in your power to be around them.

When you're truly in love you don't have to ask or wonder if you are. You just know.

.. all I can say is. be his friend, take it slow and easy.. dont RUSH! lol no your not in love, you just obsessed at the moment and thats bad. A no no espeaclly when you thin kyou'll never be. Okay.. so just take it slow and simple be his friend. and quit the obsesssion with him. Before you hurt yourself more.

Agree with Angelina...
If you were in love, you wouldn't question it.
Sounds like lust to me...

I think im gonna agree with everyone else here... if u have to question it... its probably not love... sorry
if u were in love with him... u would be happy no matter what the situation was... if he's yours or not, it shouldnt matter... u'd just be happy tht u kno him, and happy he's in your life... u wouldnt want people to stop talking about him, because you love the subject...
and thinking he'll never be yours isnt exactly helping your situation...

Love is undefinable, I agree, love just is... You know when you’re in love and only you (and your counterpart); it's like an instinct, no one can tell you otherwise. When you tell others this; that you are in love, some believe you and believe it, some doubt you, doubt it and want it to be proven (the party poopers). But the thing is “love” can’ be seen, can’t be heard (certainly not smelled or tasted); if you think that seeing is believing then you’re too far behind, “love” can only be felt. You can presume a couple is in love; call ‘em like you seem ‘em or over hear it, but you will never know for sure and probably never will if you haven’t felt it yourself. Even if you already are a firm believer that “love” is real you still will never truly know until the day you find it. ...And remember, there are two kinds of love. It’s up to you to separate the difference and classify who is in which category. If you question it it mostly likely isn't love (but that's only if YOU question it).

You all don't understand me at all.....but thanks for all of your opinions.

... you might be developing this thing called an Obsession... lol

Amber, your questions are good ones. Every younger person has to ask them at some point. The only thing is; you won't get a good answer. The questions can't be answered.
"How do you know if you're in love or not?"
People can tell you what their experiences of love have been but they won't necessarily be yours, the best answer i can give you for this one is that you will just know when you are in love. It will hit you like a bus.
"Am i in love or not?"
Only you can answer that.
Sorry that my reply is such a non-answer.

Love can only be so called a true love if the guy feels the same way for you and you had a relationship w/ this guy.but on your case maybe its just an infatuation.

You're only 13 so enjoy your life as a teenager.dont tie yourself on this kind of feelings.just go w/ the flow of life.

Ok i am going to be one of the people that acctually thinks it might be love darl you only be 13 but hun dont listen to whaT THESE fools say it doesnt matter how old you are your never to young for love

Thank you !!! ^ ^ ^