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  • rayn
    19 years ago

    ok, there is this guy and i like him alot. i mean i really can't stop thinking about him. he's only in one of my classes and the rest of the time i'm worried about what he is doing with other girls. we talk alot and we have fun together, but sometimes we don't even talk at all. someday's we just ignore each other. i'm not really sure what to think... please help me try to understand whats going on in his head.

  • Seth
    19 years ago

    Stop ignoring him!

  • west
    19 years ago

    move on

  • Erica Brown©
    19 years ago

    Tell him you like him..
    Stop ignoring him....
    Flirt..
    Yeah that's about all I've got.

  • Incognito
    19 years ago

    I've got an idea. Maybe you should stalk him, go to every class he is in to make sure that he doesn't talk to any other girls. Then again you could just stop ignoring him...

  • Hope
    19 years ago

    Lol, u sound like me a while back. Yea... I can remember, i use to always take a glance at the girl i like to see what she was doing and when i get home, i just look at the sky and ponder more about it. Then, whenever i see her with a guy, all of a sudden i got jealous and really worried, especially when they started to laugh. But what ur experiencing is just natural human anxiety, similar to that b4 a BIG school exam, probably 'cause u don't want to see another girl take him from u. Nevertheless, don't worry about it nor blow things out of proportion nor jump to a conclusion, it will only serve to distract you and turn ur life into misery.
    You should know that everything that he does may not have any significance relating to you. For example, when some days u talk and have fun while others you don't talk at all, from my perspective that could be just how he acts normally. It does not mean that he doesn't like you.
    Personnally, he is acting like any other guy... just socialising now and then with different ppl and pretty much having fun with his life. But... from what ur telling me about him so far, it seems like he has no clue as to how profound ur crush is for him. A little secret crush i c. Cool!!!
    My advice would be to just talk to him. Take small steps up the ladder in ur friendship and eventually he may develop feelings for you just as u have for him. It seems to be how everybody does it. But don't pour ur heart out on him or else u r just making urself more vulnerable to a heart-break. Don't make that mistake i made. Anyway, Good luck and take care!!! 8)

  • rayn
    19 years ago

    thankyou to everyone for there posts. and there is no more "ignoring" going on:)i haven't told him yet that i really do like him alot, but i'm working on it. its just something i am really nervous about because not too long ago i got my heart broken. and i really don't know how to "tell" him.... ne suggestions?

  • TC
    19 years ago

    dont tell him, let him figure it out, and jsut like the post before your post, dont just pour all your feelings at him cuz if he doesnt feel that way, ya'll be hurt a looooot