Help!!! Iv'e waited but it wo'nt stop!!!

All I can say is sorry that people have to be like that and sorry you got hurt. Cheese?

i lost mine to a woman i loved too. but she forgot to tell me she was married. trust me you aren't the first and you won't be the last this happens to. it took me about five years to get over her but i continued with life during that time and found someone to take the pain away eventually. i still remember my first tough and sometimes just for a second i still want her back (only for a second, then i come to my senses) it does really hurt. feel free to email me whenever you get depressed but no one is worth your life (at lease no one who'd do that)

All I can say to anyone who is in this kind of situation is : WAIT UNTIL YOU ARE MARRIED TO HAVE SEX!!!!! that way you wont get hurt because you are ensured support!!!!!!

I can sort of relate. I was going out with a guy for a long time, then he cheated on me, verbally abused me, still does. Its been a year, actually it was a whole year two days ago, and it burns every time I talk to him. Try to let him go ... and open up your hear to someone else. Thats what I'm trying to do!!

Getting over a serious loss requires time and conscious effort. While the booze may seem to ease things temporarily, in the long run it will make your recovery more lengthy and difficult. Alcohol induces lethargy and avoidance of the effort required to move ahead through the healing process and return to a normally functioning life.

I lost my husband suddenly after five and a half years. It turned my life totally upside down. At first I just wanted to withdraw and isolate myself as much as possible. That was followed by a long period of recovery and personal growth. I don’t think you ever get completely over something like this. But on the positive side I did become a stronger and more independent person as a result.

When I was really down I found two authors whose writing was an immense consolation and help on the road toward healing. They were Harold Kushner who wrote “When Bad Things Happen to Good People” and Peter McWilliams, who wrote several very helpful books, particularly one called “How to Survive the Loss of a Love.” This one is available for free because it has been published on the internet at:

http://www.mcwilliams.com/books/books/sur/srtoc.htm

Best wishes ---Lydia