I've Lost...

I've lost a friend and I don't know how to get him back. We dated for a long time (10 months) and decided we were better off as friends, only now it doesn't even seem like were that. I want to find someone I can talk to about anything, someone who won't make fun of me for my sometimes weird comments and thoughts. I know that is what he is like, but I guess it's just to weird between us. Is it possible that we could still be friends even now? I really really need someone to be here just to listen and understand, and I know that he can.

~Kat~

I dated a guy for a short time, one of my very good friends, however i relaized that i liked him better as a friend and really broke his heart..we didnt talk for months after that, it was too akward...but now we are good friends again.it takes time.

For what Corina de Haan said, thanks. I think that is exactly what I should do is just wait a while longer. I guess I'm just desperate for someone to listen to and understand me. He is the only person who really knows me well. I like being close to people like that and I don't want to loose him as a friend.

Its possible for u two to still be friends... but u cant go into the renewed friendship thinking it wont work out...

tell him u miss him... and miss ur friendship...
i dont kno him, so i dont know whta he'll say...
but its a start...

Have you talked to him about it? i might be hard, but it's probably the only thing that will help. maybe being 'just' friends isnt what he wanted and can't accept it...

i don't know either of you so i wouldnt know, but being a guy that threw away possibly everything he had as a relationship by not talking about it with that person i know not talking wont solve anything.

I haven't talked to him about it. I am afraid that he will get mad, and I don't want to put pressure on him. I guess I don't want to make him feel like he HAS to be friends with me if he doesn't want to. I just don't want to make it even weirder between us.

~Kat~

Just in case you *might* have forgotten, I DO have an account on this site... I am still trying to get what you are saying, but maybe if you actually talked to me about it, I might get it.

How hard is it to type the "w" on the word "know"? And the extra two letters in "you"? Gah!

Kat-
Ten months is a long time to date to go back to friends. A couple weeks or so is easier, but ten months is quite a while. I think that if you guys meant that much to each other all along, than you can take the time and work it out eventually. You can't be seperated from someone that you were that close to. I think you should just give it time.