how to know...

tell me how to know if he is the only one for you or not???pls.. tell me!!

you'll never know whether he is or isnt...your probably gonna have a lot of people before you find the "only one" but i dont actually believe there is only one...just one that suits you...and if he does then bingo...u got urself a catch!
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i feel secured when i'm with him..he always says i love u but,i don't feel it

Security is a good thing. and he says he loves you, what don't you feel? Is he doing the big brother thing? All emotional, not so much physical loving. I think this is something you and him need to talk about openly, and without pretense. Also, depending, I guess, on how well you know him, I would request that you should let down your guard a little. Open up, accept his love, and may be then, you'll feel something. Of course, you might get hurt. True. But that's what happens when you tear the old bandaid off the skin. It hurts, but if you left it on, the wound wouldn't be able to breathe.

I don't know if there is an "only one," in my experience, it's always been more about timing. People get together when they have similar ideologies on relationships, or when they pretend to.