Does the pain ever go away?

A friend killed himself a few years ago..although i understand the reasons he went down that path and i probly would of done the same it still hurts from time to time...

"Does the pain ever go away?"
No, you just learn to deal with it.

You learn how to live with the pain.

I'm still crying randomly-it's just easier to hide the pain... I think if the pain went away that would mean, forgetting the person near and dear to you that passed-and no one wants to forget someone they loved xo

We learn life from the pain..
how could we enjoy the life without pain?

"I'm still crying randomly-it's just easier to hide the pain... I think if the pain went away that would mean, forgetting the person near and dear to you that passed-and no one wants to forget someone they loved xo"

Hang on a second.. so you're saying just because i can think of my best friend who died in a car crash without bursting into tears of pain, i've forgotten her! Pain goes away and you learn to remember the past with a smile and remember the happy times. So don't say that i forget the people dear to me that have passed on just because i can remember them without crying. It takes time, it takes a HELLUVA lot of time, i'm still coming to terms with my nan's death, but its possible!
Peace, Gem

O my dear, pains never go away until the sme person hold you hand to who we love. love. i suffered it. its a pain.

I lost 3 buddys in iraq and pain is a never ending cycle. Everyday youll see something or hear something that reminds you of them and its like putting salt in an open wound.

Then what is it called agony well sorry im in fing agony then

I read sumthin in a book once it said about grief lasts for ever because if it didnt it wasnt true grief. but once u stop fightin it and u accept it as part of u its not as bad. it said sumthing about it will still hurt it will still tear u apart but in a different way. A more intimate way. Then the book says the pain of grief doesnt last for ever. your body cant live with that much pain so it forces you to get over it but gettin over it doesnt mean 4gettin it, it means reducing the pain 2 a tolrable level..

this is so tru, it wat u av 2 do