olive oyl
17 years ago
Im not sure where this goes but i figure it has something to deal with love so i will post it here. so this isnt my problem and i kno i should back off but still. well my little brother is a junior in high school and at the begining of this past summer his girlfriend broke up with him. now im prone to believe his side of things cuz hes my bro but at the time it was all her and she needed space and he wasnt ready for it and all that. she was his 1st love, 1st real girlfriend and his 1st lover. now she claims he was her 1st as well which i have heard from many is not true. but anyways they never used condoms and after they brokeup i heard she was pregnant. well that was like 3 months ago. about two weeks ago they started talking which i was okay with cuz i liked her. but he is dealing with alot right now and she blamed everything on him and managed to convince him that is all his fault, the relationship, bball team sucking, football team sucking. just everything. and then just recently, she told him she was pregnant with his baby but had a miscarriage. and it really screwed him up even worse then he was. yeah he was the dumbass who didnt use a condom but she lied to him about the whole birth control thing and i dunno. he needs help and guidance and some one to talk to and he wants that from me. i am 3 yrs older than him and i want to help him but how to you help someone who is going through something like that |
Brittney
17 years ago
Well, he should know that everything isn't all his fault and if he believes that then that just shows his immaturity. Who knows if she really had a miscarriage or not? Some girls in higschool with just say that to guys to get in their heads and make them feel bad. It's lame I know, but all the same, some girls do it. It would probably be best if he found out the truth and then just left the girl alone. That would be the best thing that he can do because she sounds like bad news. Maybe he has learned his lesson though and next time he will use a condom regaurdless of what his girlfriend says. My God he should no that girls lie. Come on now. He should use his head, and not the one in his pants. |