The perfect guy.....

The perfect guys comes around and he is so perfect for me in every way and theoretically i am perfect for him. and the relationship is the best i have ever had, but i dont know if i want perfect.........................its been 2.4 years what am i supposed to do now

How could you not WANT perfect? Unless it really isn't perfect. You have to decide for yourself what you want. Especially with a 2.4 year long relationship.

Luck

Ur right who doesnt want perfect. but i am not ready to settle down and have perfect. how am i supposed to be im not even twenty. am i not supposed to live more before i settle and have perfect. it just seems to be to sudden. i want prince charming but i want him to wait till im ready. but that is a little whiny baby ahole. no offense taken

There's no such thing as perfect... as you're so proving

No, I understand what you mean. You're young still, there's more that you want to do by yourself before you settle down with one person, right?

Unfortunately, there's no right way out of this. You have to decide what's best for you, just make sure that you don't do, or not do, anything that you will regret later in life. It's hard, I'm sure. Take care.

"what am i supposed to do now"

^You're supposed to love him. And things don't have to be so fast..so slow it down and don't rush..but I don't think you should let go of this one, seeing as in your eyes he's 'perfect'.

Good luck! =]
--Viola

"nobody's perfect, until you fall in love"
(can't remember where i read that)

if u think he's perfect, you're in love with him? if you want to 'live' a bit more, take some time off, travel, see what's out there, but be careful not to lose him. he sounds like a real catch! how would you feel if he was with someone else? sit and imagine that for a while. really think about it. it might help u make a decision.
good luck with it!

I don`t think I get you. I get that you don`t want to settle down, and no one is forcing you too, right? So just be with him, love him...give him what he deserves. If you decide you don`t want to be held down in a serious relationship, then tell him rather than hurt him more by staying around in it despite what you feel.

If you do get yourself out of it, take some time to find yourself, and really think to yourself on whether or not you want a serious relationship the next time.

Are you on crack..! gessh lady you got something real and your gonan give it up for some loser who probally would care less adn cheat on you and 2.4 years good luck getting rid of that but you dont want him i will take him..!!!!

I know how you feel. i feel like that sometimes, you wanna live a little more.
so just cool your jets then. dont take your relationship so seriously. you can be commited and still have fun.

This made me giggle.

Perfect relationship? And you want out?

What's the deal? If it's perfect you wouldn't want out.
Honestly, you wouldn't.

Maybe you don't want to settle down, but just can't break up with such a wonderful guy?

I understand this, I was with someone i thought was absolutely perfect for me. Yet i wasn't sure if i wanted to be with her, mainly all for stupid little reasons.
The best thing i can say is that you have no idea how good you've got it ... until you no longer do.
If you think the guy is perfect for you, then he probably is. Don't throw it away on a whim, you will regret it later.

Gem is right..

No one is perfect.

I truthfully dont think that there is anything like a "perfect" relationship, because if the relationship was "perfect" then ya wouldnt be askin for peoples advice.

I dont want "him" to be perfect. he doesnt have to be. as long as he loves me and is always there for me then hes "perfect" enough for me.

^^i know that sorta sounds corny

It can't be that perfect then. and you've just got bored, its been a long time, i've been in the same situation myself, you caould have a break and sort your head out

I don't think there is such a thing as the "perfect relationship"
what makes it so good?

Yeah they're right there's no such a thing as a perfect guy,a perfect woman, and a perfect relationship.you can only discover the real HIM/HER when you already married and you live in one roof.

and this what im going to tell you,if you really love someone dont ever look on his perfect score,try to love him inspite of his shortcomings........BUT not to be so martyr huh! i mean dont let anyone to get abuse on your rights as a woman.ok?there's certain called LIMITATIONS!

If he is so perfect you wouldnt be bored and i agree theres no such thing as perfect

If he was perfect this wouldnt be a topic...
think a bout it.

I agree, if its so perfect then you wouldn't be having this problem...there has to be something wrong. maybe not with the relationship but there must be something wrong with your feelings, no offense. i've been there. sometimes perfect and right isn't always want we want. if you need time to live then do it, your young enjoy life. see other people if you have to, then decide.
good luck