I need help....

My boyfriend is an ass to most of my friends but i love him to death. We have been together for almost 8 months, and I don't want to lose him. My one friend said that I have to choose between him and them. WHAT SHOULD I DO?

Ah... that's not very helpful... dump boyfriend... AND friends...? that'd suck!

but i do agree to some extent. you are 13. do u see yourslef marrying this guy? do you really want to lose your friends over HIM?
and if he's such a jerk to your friends then he doesn't respect you, and he'll probably end up driving your friends away, and then dumping YOU.

then you really will have no one, and you'll probably open another thread titled 'alone' and 'deserted' or something.

^^ Actually, it was helpful. True friends really DON`T give ulimatums, they`re there for you no matter what. If the boyfriend is a jerk, then they deal with it for the good of the friend. They can put their two cents in, sure, but to go as far as forcing a choice onto the person; c`mon, seriously? Would you like to have friends like that? I`m sure she has more friends than the ones that are giving out ultimatums.

Anyways, for now, you shouldn`t really have to even consider this. You`re still very young. 13, eh? Take some time, read some books, do your school work...ENJOY life...without the hassles of an inconsiderate boyfriend and some rude friends.

^^ You're too smart for a 16 (or 17?) year old...ha ha...just like me :P...nice answer

[17, lol] Hahaa, why thank-you. We`re just too smart
for own good, I think. LOL.

Britto is right. You're 13. Too young for thinking you 'love him to death!'

Children these days.

These friends of your don't seem to be really good friends if they can't be supportive of you..but then again if they really don't like him that means that there's something wrong with him that you're just not seeing. You friends probably know you best..if this is they're attempt at hinting that he is no good for you, break up with him. They might be right.
Often times we don't see what's wrong with our partens because love just blinds us..our friends do, but we continue to disregard they're wanrnings and go on ahead with the relationship untill we get hurt.
So I say hun, keep your friends..if they really mean a lot to you..though I do not agree with the ultimatum they might be right and know what's best for you.

Good luck! =]
--Viola

Well thank you guys...but I do LOVE him, I don't want to lose him or my friends...that's the problem

I have had friends with boyfriends who were arses... just remember you are very young and however you feel, when he starts being an arse to you or when you to for whatever reason fight- that your friends will be there helping you to pick up the pieces ... always friends before boyfriends - and if you two really are "in love" then just ask him to be nicer, it's not much and will change the opinions of your friends :P

Ask him why he isn't nice to your friends.

Maybe they got off on the wrong leaf :(