K, I'm almost at my wits end and need help ASAP!

Ok I really hate to sound like a silly little girl asking stupid questions like we get on here a lot but I'm completely lost and need some advice here =p

I've got a problem with two of my best guy friends and I really don't know what to do =P K, we'll call them A and B and both of them are best friends as well as being two of my best friends. The problem is that A just asked me to homecoming, asked me if I could ever think of him as more then just a friend and seems to be starting to like me =P But I don't feel that way about him at all =P Yes I love him but only as a friend and thats the only way I think I'll ever feel about him but he's a really sensitive guy that has a habit of clinging to people and I really don't want to hurt him =P I'd love to go to homecoming with him since I'm homeschooled and have never been to a school dance like that before but I don't want to give him false hope and plus my ex-bf is a jerk and has been spreading lies and rumors all over the town about me and I don't want to drag A into that =P

The problem arises by the fact that I like B and he's seemed to like me since about the time he met me in March but won't do anything about it or even tell me that =P Heck when my last bf dumped me he told me that he wanted me to go out with B because B had told him that he liked me =P I'd make the first move and just ask B if he likes me and what he actually wants but I'm not good at making the first move or anything like that =P

So the problem is that I'm stuck between these two guys and I don't want to hurt either one =P The one that I want won't make a move and that one that seems to want me I only want as a friend =P I just don't know what to do anymore and I still have to give A my answer on both whither I'll go to homecoming with him and if I could ever like him as more and I need to answer him soon GGRRR...I'm just lost and needed to rant and vent *sigh* Sorry lols =P

Go to homecoming with A, just tell him that you don't think you could ever see him as more than a friend.

And I would say that if you're not going to make the first move towards B, then nothing is going to come of it. Just go with the flow on that one.

Hey hun..
ok right i kinda understand where your coming from and that... sometimes its more trouble having men as best friends... anyway look i agree with the comment above go to the dance with him.... BUT you have to tell him tht you JUST want to be mates and you cant see you two beign more than mates.... yes youll prob hurt him but im sure he would rather you be honest nad open with him than lead him on... i know its easier said than done but you kinda gotta be cruel to be kind!!!!!!

but thing is mate you might like this other dude but he could be a waste off space as if he told your ex bf he likes you then clearly shouldnt that send you alarm bells because they could just be setting you up to look like a fool.... k k if say you turn down A to go to the dance and you go with B and he colud be a right jerk... just go to the dance with A because at least yo uknow yo ucan trust him by the sound off it!!!

all i say is dnt force ya self to make the ove on other dude because it wont happen youll only get your fingers burnt!!! so best to just tell A that you will go to the dance but ONLY as mates and if its meant to be with the other dude then it will happen... dnt force or rush your young so enjoy your younger days!!!!

gd luck

^^ I do agree with Bob. This should be the least of your worries right now. Boys will come and go until you find the right one, until then, worry about your future with the one person you know will ALWAYS be there -- yourself.

Thank you guys for all the help, it means a lot to me ^_^ lols Han84 Your right on that one lols It can be a lot more trouble having guys as your best friends lols But most of my friends are guys so it's always frustrating lols

I was thinking that *depending on how today goes since I'm supposed to hang out with B* I'll probably say yes to A about going to the dance but I'm certainly going to have make sure he understands that it's only as friends =P

As for B...he told my now ex-bf that before him and I started dating and B has been there for me and supported me when just about everyone else hated me because of what my ex was spreading =P he's a great guy that loves god and takes care of his friends so I don't think that I have to worry about him turning out like my ex lols Their both very trustworthy but your advice is still very helpful on this

lols Bob, thank you =) I always love your advice and it makes me focus again lols I normally don't let it bother me but I've been putting up with it for months now and it hasn't changed =P But yes I should be focusing on that instead *which I normally do* just this is sidetracking me right now lols

And thank you Bangbang Your right lols

Thank you everyone and I'll see how it all goes today lols