I need advice...plz.....

  • MuddinGirl
    17 years ago

    I don't know what to do. Is something wrong with me or what. I am 27 never married, no kids, and single and very dishearted. What should I do?

  • Rachel
    17 years ago

    Don't worry about it! 27 is still very young! Just don't let it bring you down cause people can sense that. Just live each day to the fulliest and something will happen for you! Go out, meet new people. Things always pick up!

  • Viola
    17 years ago

    Yeah, Bob makes a good point.
    As my friend once told me "Why don't you try looking under your nose? You might find the guy you're looking for right there."
    And if not, then he will come in time. Just get to know a lot of new people, find some club or group to join and you'll find the right person. Give it time dear.
    Good luck! =]
    --Viola

  • Solus
    17 years ago

    Some people are just ment to be alone....but that in of its self isn't a bad thing. Why you think you need to be married or have kids at a certain time or age is just something society wants you to think....and thats not a good thing to allow yourself to conform to. Marry when YOUR ready, have kids if YOU want to. Not because others think you should. There's nothing wrong with you if you lack these now, its just wrong that you think you need these to be normal.

  • Prophecies In Kodak
    17 years ago

    Lol.
    I have a 33 year old family friend.
    Never married, never had a real steady relationship, doesnt have kids, lives on his own, and only has a few friends.

    Funny thing being.. He's one of the nicest and greatest people I've ever meant. And funny as all hell.
    So nah.

  • Pete
    17 years ago

    I don't think there is anything wrong with you, i just turned 27 and as you, never married & no kids .. i know where you're coming from. It makes you feel like you're doing something wrong in the relationships you've had. Do what i did, find a simpler relationship with less needs than your previous partners .. get a dog! My dog won't ever leave me for another owner, or cheat on me etc. I hope ...

  • MuddinGirl
    17 years ago

    I do have a dog. which he is great but I miss having someone to hold me when I feel down and depressed. Also, thanks Bob Shank (moderator) You may the best sense in this whole forum. But I can't change my name because that is what kind of girl I am. A true country girl and tomboy. I really appreciate all the comments and hope to get more. And by the way to the one who mentioned her friend I don't want someone cold hearted I have already been ruined by that. I have had an abusive relationship that has ruined my outlook on men. I guess that could be one thing wrong with me. Anyway hope to hear from everyone again.
    C.J.