Can anyone relate or help!!??

What do u do when you get stuck in the middle of lies between your parents ((during a divorce))and you don't know who is telling the turth or if they are both lying???? Anybody know or can relate??

I can totally relate.
Just stay out of it babe, don't listen to either side.
If they start arguing, or saying stuff to you, just tell them that you don't need to know, that you love them both equally because they're your parents. And that you don't like the situation they're putting you in.

Aw you ppor thing! i've been through the divorce but they complain about each other all the time, one says something the other says something they bring each other up in conversations just to prov their better its a real pain i know but when they talk just remember that what their saying could be true just missing out bits and exaggerating, try not to listen to them just nod and say oh yeah or whatever. dont dwell on it, its not your problem (even though its becoming an issue) just do your best to keep your head up :) hope things get better, and look on the bright side of divorce 2 birthdays and 2 Christmas, or what ever you celebrate :)

If I were you I would stay out of it. If they start arguing them leave the room and go read a book or something :)

My parents did the same thing to me, i was 7 though. but the shit still happens, all i can tell you is sit them both down and tell them how things are so crappy for you, and tell them how they are making you feel. just let them know what you are going through.

But what if you already told them all your can and they still don't listen or just don't care....and matters just worse?!

I can relate. my mom and dad split up when i was young and then my mom and step dad and me and my 2 little sisters lived with my granparents for a while. my mom claimed was under too much pressure to keep living there. so we moved and i was only allowed to see them every other weekend. and then my mom and dad wanted me to tell them every single thing my grandparents said about them. i got caugh in the middle of so much crap.
its not fair for them to put you in the middle of it. just dont say anything when they start yelling and tell them that you dont want to be put in the middle of their situation.

Well.. im in exactly the same position ur in. i just say fuck them both im doing what i gotta for me... they love and care but thats about it... understand its their shit not urs and leave it at that.

What i did was listen to the both of them and then make up my own mind.
Or just stay out of it altogether.
It's unfair for them to try to bring you into it and you should tell them that.
Maybe by hearing you stand up to them, they'll realise how petty they are being.
PM me if you want to talk about it. I've been through the works, lol.

It happened with my rents.. when they divorced although i have two other sisters.. i was still stuck in the middle.. take what both of them are saying and form your own oppinion... i arranged for both of them to meet up... *with out them sussing*... and confronted them both about what they were saying.. and eventually came clean about what was actually lies and the truth... ..

hope this helps
x

Tell them.. its your marriage, i am merely the product of it... keep me the hell out of it if you care at all...
my parents divorced when i was 3 but i had to be in the middle of itmy whole life. it was lieka constant divorce.

If talking to them doesn't help then just stay out of it completely. be apathetic about their fighting, act normally when you're around them, don't let any of it affect you. believe me, i can relate and doing this actually calms down the situation alot more.

My parents have been going through a 'divorce' since I was little. I do not let myself get stuck inbetween them, because I know what each one them are like. My mother is a liar and gives false hope.. my father bends things so he can win.

If I were to let myself get in between them like I have in the past, I would still be depressed and unsure of everything. You have to push yourself free from them and believe what you think is right, not what others tell you.