More than a friend??

  • JanaeNae
    17 years ago

    I have this friend, we've been friend for like...a year now...we've spent a lot of time together, we clicked imediatelly. But now, i like him. a lot. i've never liked anybody like this before. what should i do? should i risk the friendship? or no? is it worth it? help!! i'm dying here! (Cuz he is a MAJOR flirt, with me and everyone else)

  • Pete
    17 years ago

    Now only you can really know if its going to be best for you to tell him how you feel. I can only tell you what i would do. If i was in your shoes ..
    I would tell him how i felt about him and hope it wouldn't ruin the friendship - if the friendship is good and he's a nice guy then i wouldn't worry about losing him as a friend, he shouldn't make it uncomfortable for you. If you feel the way you say - then the worst case scenario is that it becomes a little uncomforatble, best case scenario is that you end up getting together. For me its a no brainer, the gain way outweighs the loss.
    I say definitely go for it!
    Best of luck.

  • ABake
    17 years ago

    Well, hmm. My best friend and I were REALLY close. Like scary close. Lol. And he is a guy. Then after like a month of me liking him, I finally got the guts to ask who he liked. And he said me. Lol. Now we are together. I was always worried about ruining our friendship but if you really like him take the chance just make it clear to him that you still want to be friends if you break up. I wish you all the luck =]

    Amber...

  • Kenzie
    17 years ago

    I wouldnt risk it. Sounds like he has potential to be a player? And if you guys are really good friends, you wouldnt want to loose that. Good friends are hard to come by! Good LUCK!

  • JanaeNae
    17 years ago

    Thanks, you guys really helped...
    how would i tell him though? just like...dude, i like you. or like...i dunno...ahh! lol
    omg amber thats soooo cute!!! >_< i wish that would happen... :]
    and no...he's not really a player...just a flirt. ya know?
    well, maybe i'll wait a little while...even though i don't think these feelings are going anywhere, i've liked him FOREVER, trying to convince myself i didn't, because he's a good friend.... {sigh}...

  • chind
    17 years ago

    Oohh that happened to me !!
    and when i told him our friendship fell apart.
    but i still continued to like him.
    and now we are friends again =]

    be like i gotta tell you something but i dont wanna ruin the friendship we have. lol i dunno. worked on me ;]

    hope that helped .. a little bit. lol
    all the best =]