The Tears I bleed
17 years ago
Okay, so me and my boyfriend plan on moving in together... well actually with his parents (yeah it may sound lame but we havent any money yet and we're working on saving) but i dont know how to break it to my parents... like i know i have to tell them (obviously) but how should i? what do i do if they flip? |
The Tears I bleed
17 years ago
Im moving in when im 18 and out of school, normal? umm dunno really, probably not. but i really want away from my family and want something different, this isnt a last minute decision, i've thought about this a lot, and i mean A LOT. and ur aloud to move out when ur 17 in SC. |
The Tears I bleed
17 years ago
Yes they know, his mom is excited about it acutally. and the rules? well we've been over them, and if we break up? well i'll have a job and money so i can move out, besides even if we do break up, we'll still be friends. i dont think its wrong to plan it, but they've always been over protected. |
JanaeNae
17 years ago
Well...i agree with ^ that...you should have told your parents a long time ago. that way, if they didn't approve, you would have known a long time ago. now, you're just gunna have to be blunt about it. like you were pregnant or something...you just gotta go and tell them. and if they flip...well, they probably will...it really depends how they feel about your boyfriend. they're only over protective because they love you :] |
Rachel
17 years ago
Well, I had plans on moving out when I was 16 and when I told me mom she got pretty furious. So later I talked it over with my boyfriend and we decided to wait. 3 Years later, we're finally doing it, lol. The only way is to come out and say it. You should probably tell the parent you feel would best understand. Remind them its your life and if its a mistake, its a mistake. You can't learn/grow without making a couple! If they flip out, just tell them you're looking for their approval, but with or without it you're doing it. |
Independent
17 years ago
I agree with angelina 100 percent |