Oh my gosh! i'm worried

  • LoveBird99
    17 years ago

    Ok, so in a VERY BRIEF description...i met my boyfriend's brother before i met my BF and fell for the bro the day i met him. i also liked my current BF, so i got together with him. the bro and i stayed friends and still are, but most of my poetry is for him, and my BF wants to check out this site. if i am making any sense at all then great! so someone commented a poem of mine saying, "this is for your boyfriend's brother, yes?" i'm so very worried that he'll see it, break up with me, and tell his bro, ruining both friendships... should i worry?

  • MaSkEdSoUl
    17 years ago

    Why would you get with your current bf if you like his brother instead?

  • Pete
    17 years ago

    Should you be worried ? .. Simple answer yes.
    If someone else has picked up on it so will your b/f.
    If you are worried about it and don't want your b/f to find out then delete the poems that are blatently about his brother and remove any comments relating to such.
    Trying to hide it from him is not the best idea in the world though. That's a heavy secret to be hiding. It needs to come out of you one day!

  • chind
    17 years ago

    You like your bfs bro
    but you like your bf too
    but most of you poems are about your bfs bro.
    why are you writing poems about your bfs bro if your with your bf ? . lol
    i am wandering the same thing as Simply unknown ...

  • Free Spirit
    17 years ago

    Uhh u shouldn't get neither of the guys cuz ur messed up.. 1st get urself straight, then think if ur ready for a man.

  • TrueLover
    17 years ago

    Why on earth are you with a boy, when you like his brother?

    Must really love him, huh?

    Yeah, I'd be worried, because you are pining for someone else when you should be thinking about your boyfriend...

  • HOLLYWOODxBANGBANG
    17 years ago

    HAHA.

    Ohh. You thirteen year olds crack me up.

    Seriously, if you`re not mature enough to be in a relationship, then don`t be in one at all. Take some time for yourself -- read some books, do your school work. And I`d advise you break up with your boyfriend because if you like his brother than you`re really just yearning to hurt both of them, and why should you be given the liberty to do that because you don`t know the meaning of a relationship? You shouldn`t.

  • BreakMyWingsAndRun
    17 years ago

    I am 13 too and i am tired of people saying that 13 year olds can't fall in love and don't even know what love is, but they are all wrong about that! the people who say that aren't you and have no idea of what you're feeling so they don't need to say stuff like that. the question wasn't " do you think that a 13 year can fall in love" the question was what do you think she should do...so just stick to one question at a time!

  • Hooy
    17 years ago

    You shouldn't be going out with your b/f now. bottom line. that's some messed up stuff.

  • TrueLover
    17 years ago

    Okay, aside from the pro-thirteen stuff.

    It doesn't matter how old you are, if you claim to be so in love with your boyfriend, yet you yearn to be with his brother?

    'Tis not love, my dear. Get over it.

  • LoveBird99
    17 years ago

    I was venting when i posted this, so sorry if i got any of you to think that i am some messed up teen.

  • kori
    17 years ago

    You were venting???

    You need to break up with your boyfriend, because you are not stable and you don't know what you want. You don't deserve either of them, you're setting them both up to be hurt. I agree with the others, you're not ready to be in a relationship.

    You are too young, and you don't get the concept of telling someone "I love you."

    And you can't just fall in love with someone the first day you see them. That's lust. And if you did love his brother, you'd have never gotten together with your boyfriend in the first place.

    Girl, you are so confusing! I don't care what any of the other 12 or 13 year olds say, you are not in love, and are too young to carry such weight on your shoulders!!! Love isn't all about hugs and kisses, and I love you's. It's so much more, and you don't get that yet. Do your school work.