i think i saved somones life... BUT FOR HOW LONG?

hey guys i was on msn today and i was talking to one of my best friends. and at the time i was also talkin to this guy, and he was being an asshole teasing me ans crap like that. the appaently he was teasing my friends saying she was aloser and she was pathtic because she cuts her self and that she cuts only for attention...and she took it to heart and got really hurt and it got into her head that he wanted her to die so she would(what made it worse was that she likes that guy) so she started cutting herself while she was talking to me n she accitsently told me she was doin it. so i was like freaking out and i was like yelling at her to stop tellign erh o crop the knife blablabla like forcing her to stop. she dropped the knife and i was so happy and i was like telling her how much it meant to me and stuff like that. the nshe continually kept saying sorry which i kne she had picked up the knife again. and then i told her that i felt so pissed off and that she made me feel like shit because i couldn't stop her. she she dropped it again. and she said she couldn't controll herself. i was so happy i had stopped her. but then i realised if she couldn't controll herself before and how lucky it was that i was talkin to her at the time how do i know she wont do it again like for example right now i am not tlakin to her and well she could die and i was't thee to stop her. GET TO THE POINT: is there a way that i can stop her completely or help her... plz i am really desperate.

P.S SORRY THAT IT IS A LONG POST BUT PLEAS ANSWER IT A FRIENDS LIFE IS ON THE LINE!!

The best thing you can probly do is talk to her, asking her not to cut is only short term you have to find out why she cuts and feels bad and maybe try to help her solve her problems and let her know you are there for her. That's all i can think of now, good luck.

The most important thing to do is let her know that u care about her and that u are here for her through her time of need. wen sum1 is suicidal they usually tend to tell one person b4 they do it. u cant help her completely though, because onli she can help herself in the long run. but all u can do is be there for her and talk to her.
if it gets worse maybe u should tell an adult too
hope u r ok
keep smiling and stay strong
xxxxxxx

thanks guys... i just hope all goes well with her... i am so scared!

Just talk to her listen to wuts she's got to say, when someone is suicidal it doesnt always mean they want to die sometimes they just want a answer the their problems and see that as the only way.

It shows you are a nice person if your scared for the safety of your friend.My friend and I are starting a website for ppl who need help with cutting or suicidal thoughts and stuff like that i will post more about it once it gets up and running.you can go there if you want to talk about anything and you can tell your friend she is welcome there i hopee only nice ppl show up though i always have a open mind for new things so if there is another kind of problem out there that u want to talk about email me plz.i am trying to stop ppl from hurting them selves and others.

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You and your friend should go here andrew and I are trying ot make a difference its going to be a great site and if oyu have a problem tell us about it .

ya i know excactly how u feel and the only real thing u can do is trust hre to not do it and if she comes to u for help give her the best help u can. this almost excact thing has happend to me a cupile times and it never gets ne easyer to deal with but u have t stay stong for the both of ua dn just be there in her time of need and if she doesnt come to u trust her not to do nething and if she does its out of your control and in no way r u ever responsable if u ever wanna talk more im hear get me through my pro or talk in hear best wishes
~kathleeny~

so in other words just listen and talk?

well what do i say to her?

say gud things bout her ,remind her of her strengths n make her feel better bout herself ,tell her how much she means 2 u n her other loved ones n it will really selfish 4 her 4 making all this ppl suffer wid her acts.
gud luck
--chavii--

tell her why u would be upset if she left tell her all the things u admire and make u like her to her. and yes u lissen to her and try and relate if u can and just talk from your heart ya i know it sounds corny but its realy true if she comes to u agien it means she doent wanna do it that doesnt mean she wont it just means she doesnt want to and she herself cant remember y shes alive and u have to remind her. hope it helps im hear if u need me ever
~Kathleeny~

WELL I SAID THAT LAST TIME AND THE NEXT DAY SHE JUST WENT AND CUT AGAIN... has anyone out there stopped someone completly??? if so pelase tlel me your story i need ideas

well im suicidal and i have tried to kill myself a number of times but someone always walks in on me when im just about dead but if they were to talk to me i think all id want to hear that somebody DOES love me and im not alone and that if i try really hard i can survive..... i dont know if itll work on ur friend coz thts just me

and also if she goes and cuts again u shouldnt get angry it takes a long time to stop because its a pain release so u should just keep tht in mind 2