Im shy, and i really like him

  • MorbidCupcake
    17 years ago

    Im really shy.
    How would I let the guy know I like him without having to jus go up and tell him?

  • Pete
    17 years ago

    Flirting is a really really good idea, it really grabs attention. Its a primal instinct or something - guys respond to girls flirting.

  • Kalee
    17 years ago

    Another thing you could do is write him a letter and either get someone to give it to him or send it to him. Trust me it does work.

    Kalee

  • OMGdanielle
    17 years ago

    Dont get your friend to give him a note. most guys hate that.
    flirt.

  • Windsong
    17 years ago

    I say flrit .. and if that dose work because some guys can be so clue less. drop hints ... give me looks across the room and when he starts to talk to you 1st don't look and answer so fast . thats what i do and it works most of the time

  • Kayla
    17 years ago

    Haha, ^ You are right!! Some guys are totally clueless.. so flirting may not work. But I say do that first. If it doesn't work, drops hints like they said. He might not figure it out on his own, so you'll have to try to let him know without actually telling him. Don't get really bad though and like, hang all over him. Guys aren't into that and most would find it annoying and you definitely don't want him to think that!

    If you wanna know how me and my boyfriend got hooked up.. well, I told some friends I had a crush on him and they ended up telling him without asking me if they could. I think that scared him a little so we didn't ever talk. Then we went to the county fair together and hung out the entire time and I was just really myself and he started liking me too. At school I came up and talked to him about the fair and asked if he had fun and just flirted. We did that for an entire week then we both went to a football game and hung out, then a dance, and I dropped the BIG hint that I wanted him to ask me out. We had so many people asking if we were together, so I said,"So, when are you going to ask me out anyways?" And he said he would and he did later on that night =D

    So.. I guess what I'm saying is just be yourself. Talk to him.. don't let him fall for some other chick that doesn't deserve him like my boyfriend almost did. Flirt, drops hints, give him some time to really get to know the real you.

    GOOD LUCK!!!

    ~Rikku~

  • X l i l T a n i X
    17 years ago

    Haha maybe you should get a friend to tell him or something thats what my friends sometimes do

  • Choose xX Alex Xx Life
    17 years ago

    The hardest part is the first smile or the first few words, the rest is easy. Just show him who you are and if he likes you he ask for you to see him again :D xxx alex xxx

  • MorbidCupcake
    17 years ago

    Yes, that is the hardest part. And I cant even seem to try tht part. I think rejection has made me too careful.

  • Kayla
    17 years ago

    Just talk to him hun! Like we've all said before.. he can't like you or anything if you don't talk to him. Show you who you really are.. go for it!! Like Britt said, so what if he doesn't like you? That's the worst that can happen.. nothing too bad.. and who knows? You may find someone a lot better and will move on.