I need some serious advice from someone please.

  • Christina
    17 years ago

    I love my boyfriend so much.
    its guna be a year soon
    but the more time that goes by,
    seeems like he is being lost in some sort of ..
    self, problems.
    he wont talk to me,
    i dont know where the connection has gone
    but giving up and dunmpin him
    not in my mind at all.
    what can i do to connect to him
    to make him talk to me,
    he is even startin to be rude to me.
    i think i know he loves me.
    its been a year..
    pleeasee tell me what i can do to make him ..
    see how much i really care about him,
    im a needy person
    but i haven't showed it,
    because the last thing i need is him getting annoyed or just.. not caring!
    he doesn't seem to care!!
    please help.. he is a great guy.

  • Christina
    17 years ago

    Thank you so much.

  • JodiieBaybeh
    17 years ago

    Omg i went through the EXACT same thign with my boyfriend ... we ended up splittin up for a week ..his doin not mine ... but we got back together and everythings fine... i made the mistak of asking him quite alot if he was okay ..a dn wat was up with him .. so id advise to bite ur toung alot ... because i jsut pushed my bf away... but i got him back you might not be as lucky but if he wants to talk about it then he will .. if not by pressuring him its only gonna push him away .. and he will get annoyed.. id ask him .. ermm 2 times a week .. like on monday .. then on thursday .. best thing to do .. hope this helped x

  • JodiieBaybeh
    17 years ago

    Sorry about the spellings.. and me and my boyfriend are also just under one year :)

  • Teria
    17 years ago

    Maybe he's just as needy as you, but in the opposite way?
    There's been many times in relationships where I have had needy guys, and I just need a break. Not to be rude, or anything. But, sometimes a 'break' or just a few days without hanging out will help. And, hanging out doesn't include not talking. Talk on the phone, or in school. Just don't go do stuff after school and such.
    I'm sure with some time things will get better, if this is the case of course.

    He could just want to break up with you.
    Or, feel that you're being too distant as well. I mean, since you're not asking him what's wrong and such. Not having a conversation about it.

  • OMGdanielle
    17 years ago

    My boyfriend did that for a while. we wound up splitting for a week. horrible week, by the way.
    but were back together and all is good

  • janice
    17 years ago

    All you have to do is to give him some space and time to settle everything on his own.maybe he doesnt want you to get involve on whatever he's facing right,though you have the right.

    but dont force him now to talk to you.time will come if he really loves you,he will be the first one to approach you.remember being in love must be ready to face all the fun and even the heartaches coz its part of having a relationship.