HE'S GOT A BABY!!!!!!!!!!!!

It's time to move on. If you go down that road with this guy you would just be setting yourself up for major hurt and heartbreak ahead.

Besides, his primary moral and legal obligation is now to support and to be there for the child that he fathered.

u and him need to decide if you's are together for good coz if he keeps leaving u and coming back to u, he isn't worth it... if u both decide that you's are together for good, ask him to move in with u and just tell the other lady to back away coz that guy isn't hers!!! u neva know what might happen with him and her again so like i said, get him to move in with u and stop the other girl from seeing the guy but still let him see his baby!! thats what my sister and i both think...anyways, try that if u want.

I think you ahould get out of this situation.. If he really wants nothing to do with this woman then he wouldnt be living with her.. He'd find somewhere else to live.

I had a kinda simliar situation hun, and things can turn out for the best...my partner has a six year old son that he did have with another woman quite a few years before we met. It was hard to accept believe me! For months i agonised over what I wanted to, Did I wanna be with this man, another womans child, another woman...was I really prepared to get involved in such a serious relationship? In reallity babes you really do have to consider EVERY aspect of this situation if you intend on being with this man. His child will be his priority and alot of the time your needs will come second best, it adds so much pressure on your relationship, your sex life and your moods - its life changing if you commit yourself to it. I could go on and on and on hey? Just of all the things that went thru my head when I was this situation and I really feel sorry for you hun cause it is soooooo tough - whatever decision you decide to make.
Where your situation differs from mine is that your man is LIVING with this other woman, my partner doesn't see nor speak to his son's mother - and in a way that made things easier for us. But you need a realllity check hun Im sorry to be harsh but he can't be serious about living there with her. You need to find yourself and goodlooking single man with no baggage cause you dont need this in your life...feel free to email me if you wanna chat further - just check my profile cause girl...,my heart really does go out to you oxox

He's living with his BABY'S mom, you know they have had sex, so if they are now sleeping in the same house they're probably having sex now. No one can tell me that a man is living with a woman who gave birth to his baby and there is nothing going on. You need to move on and find yourself a new man. And he had unprotected sex with her, now what if she had aids or some other STD, and he came and gave it to you? You need someone you can trust. A dude running around town getting people pregnant is a man who is going to bring you a nasty disease home.

thats not your problem if you love him then you trust him right ??then believe him