Is It True?

I was wondering is ti true that you wil always have feelings for the person that you lost your virginity to? They say that if you are with someone else boy or girl that you will always care for the person who you were with and lost your virginity to? is that necessarily true?

S'not true. I have no feelings for my first. You'll just always remember the person.

I don't think it would be true. I think you would have a connection with them, being that you were first intimate with them, but I don't think it would be love.

Nope.
hate my first with a passion. hardly consider him my first actually, but if you wanna get technical.. because of the fact that he rather forced me into it... on numerous occasions... so yeah.
the one who i do consider my first, is the one im with now.i was his first too.. something i didnt know till AFTER the fact lol... anyways i believe that if we were to break up i;d still have some feeling for him.

I think that if you do it out of love, and not out of crazy-teenage-hormonal-lust then you will always have a soft spot for that person.

^^^ true. if BOTH..not just one do it because you care about each other you will never forget that person and will always have a spot for them. not love, but i guess a soft spot is the right words.

I think its kind of true . because with my mates first she still flirts with and has fun with him even though she hates his guts.... which i find kind of weird.

Yea i feel wut all you guys r saying i guess it's how much you accually put in when you guys were intimate ya kno. but i guess you wil always have a "soft spot" for them.

Mmm. Not true at all.

The first time I had sex, was like.. Gah. No detail.
I had great feelings for him at the time, no longer do though. But, as Ian said, you'll never forget, and always remember him, and the expierence. Lol.

But, have you ever heard the saying that girls like replay other guys in their mind before and during sexual intercourse? The guys they've had sex with before?

That is true.
Which is why you should not have sex.
I would change it all faster than a heartbeat, darling.

It depends on who you are. If you are one of those people who has sex with anyone, any chance you get, you're not going to remember who you had sex with last weekend, let alone the first time. But if you actually care about that person, naturally you're going to still care for them. That person holds an important part of you. Now in my opinion, you should only give that part of you to the one you are going to be with forever...But that's just me! Some people view sex as special, others just think it's fun.

Yes & no.

Yes, you will always have feelings for the first person you lost your virginity to... But, only on the condition that you're STILL with that FIRST person!

No, you will not have feelings for the "first" person you lost your virginity to, nonetheless a "soft spot"... Especially--and specifically--if you aren't even with that person anymore!

The saying that you DO and will ALWAYS have feelings for the first person you lost your virginity to is a load of bull! ...But, I guess for some people who believe in it hard enough (who are desperate, I like to think), sadly, it is real.

In conclusion... You're not obligated to "love" someone just because you had sex with them, and your not obligated to "love" every boyfriend or girlfriend you date!