Is This Normal?

Let's say you've been hurt in the past so many times. Been cheated on lied to and everything, and everytime you thought you found someone different you were wrong. But now you've fallen in love. You have found the perfect person that you've been looking for and you thought you'd never find. But you think that they could be cheating on you. as much as you don't want to think about it you do. They are attractive and constantly have people on them, and people are constantly trying to fill your head up and tell you he isn't right for you and you've been hurt so many times that you jump to conclusions is that normal? or is that a warning sign, and you should look further into it? OR is it your mind thinking WAY to hard? please help need advice!!!

Depends on the person. Personally, I think it's probably normal. But, you should still keep 'an eye out'. But, not to the point where it interferes nor stresses you out.

When you've been hurt numerous times, it's hard to convince yourself that not everyone is like the people who have hurt you in the past.

You have to learn to guard your heart, but also give people the benefit of the doubt.

When it comes to people telling you he isn't right for you... you have to look at what they are saying and who they are. If they are people close to you that you trust, then you need to determine why they think he's not right for you and consider their opinions.

I was just like you! My boyfriend and I had SO many problems. He didn't understand the concept of a relationship. We fought ALL the time! I tried to end it a million times. After 2.5 years of fighting, and him breaking my heart, things got better. Now we've been together almost 5 years. We're amazing now. If you believe personally he is doing something, talk to him about it. I jump to conclusions all the time because I am use to him lying and cheating. Now, I trust him. And at times I do jump to conclusions, but it's getting better, alot better!

If I were you, I'd leave it alone. I think you're just use to heartbreak.