Is it wrong

  • kimberly dennis
    17 years ago

    Is it wrong to break up with the one person that you truely love cause he doesnt tell you every thing? I said i wouldn't give up on him but is letting him go the same thing?

  • HOLLYWOODxBANGBANG
    17 years ago

    Uhh. Hard question to pick apart, really. I think if you love him, you would give him another chance. You may have already been giving out second and third chances, who knows...but, just tell him how you feel...make sure he knows that communication is VERY important within a relationship.

    Breaking up with him wouldn`t be the same thing, no. Not in my opinion anyways, to others it may be, but not to me. If you broke up with him and completely ignored him, then yes. But, if you break up and continue a strong friendship and keep your bonds tied instead of cut, then it isn`t giving up on him.

  • Nicole Maree
    17 years ago

    I agree with this ^^ - Very good advice

  • Ck deeP
    17 years ago

    I think we should all have space 4 ourselves, i mean do u trust him enough 2 let him have his own space?...kuz if u dont, then theirs no point on even bein wit him, no matter how much u love him. IF THERES NO TRUST, U WILL B ENGAGED IN A STRESSFUL RELATIONSHIP.

    P.S. ; let him breathe.

  • OMGdanielle
    17 years ago

    Communication is key. if hes not telling you important things, you need to talk to him.. little things? let him be. i dont tell my boyfriend everything. i know he doesnt tell me everything either.

  • Elizabeth
    17 years ago

    Communication is one of the most important aspects of a relationship.

    Don't dump him just because he's not communicating... well. If he's not communicating at all or perhaps doesn't put any effort into communicating with you, then it's a different situation. Dumping the one you "love" just because of something like that isn't actually proving your "love" for them... In this case, it doesn't prove that you are keeping your word to never give up on him. Dumping him because of this is the same as giving up on him, whether you remain friends or not. It doesn't matter if you've talked to him about it on previous occasions or not. If you dumped him straight away without coming forward to him, then breaking up would be the same as giving up on him. If you dumped him after countless attempts to reach him, then breaking up on him would still be the same as giving up on him. Simply...

    He could be just having trouble trying to put his thoughts into words, and putting feelings into those words too. You should talk to him about it, tell him that communication is the most important thing in your relationship. You should help him, constantly remind him, he may just need some reassurance.

  • Elizabeth
    17 years ago

    "The things that people in love do to each other will always be remembered, & if they stay together it's not because they forgot it's because they forgave."